Have finaly been getting some issues of mine sorted and hence getting back into solo daygame, but since not doing pickup properly for a few months I built up some very bad AA and would easily make up reasons why not to approach a girls. SO I tried out forcing myself to do something and committing by giving girls a yes or no, there were still yes's I would not approach as they would have their boyfriend right next to them or something, but at the very least there was no other reasons other than obvious situational issues.