Seems obvious, but in the back of my mind I always thought that women should share in the duty of approaching first, or asking for a date.

Well now it seems wrong to me.

The world of men is split in two: the ones who approach, and those who don't (a much, much larger subsection).

Women are all about the guys who unashamedly desire them, and approach them without hesitation. That subsection of men will forever split all of the women.

They don't approach because they don't want a guy who can't approach.

Women set themselves up to be approached with a subtle, unspoken language of hair flips, ignoring, some even touch the back of your chair or sniffle in your presence. It's weird, but you have to read those signals for what they are: she wants you to approach her!