Hello everyone !

It's been a while now since I joined this sub. I had a lot of progress since I started to learn seduction. I come from very far to a point where I was literally scared to death to speak to any woman.

Now, things are really easier. I've been on a date this summer, with a beautiful lady (I thought was way of my league). We had a decent date, we kissed, but it didn't go much further (I guess it was because of my texting game...)

So I took some months to recover from this experience, I went to quickly attached to her. I learned more about myself and decided to work on myself first, learn self-love and become a better version of myself before coming back into the dating world.

Right now I am in a State where I just take things as they come and don't want to force things to go the way I want them to go. So I think I am in the right mindset. Whatsoever, without really looking for it, I've been able to match with several girls and getting their phone numbers. It became really natural for me to flirt with girls in general and so getting those numbers became easier.

But...

You know guys why I am here.

I try to stay in the right mindset and try to think that if things doesn't work out, it means that it wasn't meant to be. However, I can't stop thinking that I have my part to play in the story and that I should do everything in my power to do things right and not fuck things up. So right now, I am asking you for advices because I'm starting to be clueless and don't really know what strategy I should adopt. (I guess I am still a bit afraid of doing shit and self-sabotaging myself)

I've been talking to this girl (F 20) for a few days, we met through OLD. I started to talk to her even if we didn't match. I started to think that not having matched with a girl did not mean that much, and I've been able to have a pretty decent conversation that ended into exchanging numbers.

I didn't wait that much before exchanging numbers because I wanted to make my intentions clear, I'm not here to become a texting partner, but to meet them and do on dates. But I hope that getting the number quickly would not backlash at me...

So we had a few inside jokes between us. I even had the opportunity to give her a cute nickname which she definitely loves ! We keep the conversation going after exchanging numbers and then we had to go to sleep. So we sent each other good night texts, and said we would discuss the day after. (Which was yesterday)

So yesterday I sent her a message in the morning, (something light and flirty) asking if St Nicholas the Belgian santa claus, came for her and gave her gift.

I didn't receive a response the whole day, so the evening I shoot a funny message, saying that maybe she was not a morning person and that I would maybe be okay to forgive her knowing we were Friday (end of the week, everyone gets tired) She showed me a screenshot showing me she answered but I never got the text.

When I received the text I was visiting my parents so I have not been able to text that much and decided to be honest and transparent, I quickly replied that I was not gonna be able to text that much and would gladly talk later.

She answered later in the evening saying there wasn't any problem at all with that.

Since then, because I went to bed early, I didn't see the message before this morning (we are Saturday morning here). And I am just clueless for where I just lead things, and how I should text her right now. I would like to know her better and be able to meet her. I don't know if a phone call is appropriate (since we don't know that much yet about each other), and sincerely don't know what text I should shoot her after her reply.

Would you please help me?

Thanks for everyone, sorry for the long text!

Tldr: Met a girl on dating app, didn't match but was able to have a nice and funny conversation, we exchanged numbers, but yesterday we were not able to talk much. I need advices to get the conversation going and not let things sink.

Edits : Typo