Really need some help seddit. 25 year old - absolutely zero encounters.

Epoh · 2011-11-10T11:19:46+00:00

You need to examine your fears and what is at the root of them. 3rd year psych student if it's not obvious. Why r u afraid to make a move? Is it rejection? Her judgement of you? Your judgement of you? I'm 22 and I have kissed a few girls but am hardly experienced so I can relate to what your going through. You gotta ask yourself why you haven't pursued and what the main reason is that's stopping you from being more direct with women. You get over that my friend, and your phd/gym body/ decent looks will do more than enough talking. I obviously don't know you, but given what you have going for you, you have the materials to blow the lid right off this constricting phobia and im sure you will. Eventually your suffering becomes so high that the physical symptoms almost force you to overcome obstacles. Hopefully it doesn't get to that and you can tackle it earlier. Be a little more clear in your intentions even though it feels weird.

SedditorX · 2011-11-10T00:11:05+00:00

What do you have going on in your life? What are your passions and what do you have to show for them

panasupersonic · 2011-11-10T06:06:41+00:00

Taking advantage of them? You're assuming women don't like being fucked. And you're assuming quite wrong. They fucking love it, just like men do. You're doing her a favor by escalating.

If you wait for a woman to make the 1st move, you'll probably be waiting forever. I'm the same age as you, and in my AFC days, I'd have a girl ask me out and I wouldn't even go in for the kiss. The girls never did. They expect you to lead and will have it no other way.

So get started on the program here. Do the 100 set challenge. Read and practice.

That you're very successful ("Doctor" is the ultimate trump card with girls, as far as your profession goes), decent looking and work out are huge advantages. But they don't mean a damn thing if you don't make them work for you. Consider that my friend is jobless and couchsurfing and getting laid all the time. If he can do it, so can you.

2011-11-14T07:12:58+00:00

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Epoh · 2011-11-10T11:19:46+00:00

You need to examine your fears and what is at the root of them. 3rd year psych student if it's not obvious. Why r u afraid to make a move? Is it rejection? Her judgement of you? Your judgement of you? Can you think back to any experiences with girls that left you vulnerable? I'm 22 and I have kissed a few girls but am hardly experienced so I can relate to what your going through. You gotta ask yourself why you haven't pursued and what the main reason is that's stopping you from being more direct with women. You get over that my friend, and your phd/gym body/ decent looks will do more than enough talking. I obviously don't know you, but given what you have going for you, you have the materials to blow the lid right off this constricting phobia compared to alot of people, and im sure you will. Eventually your suffering becomes so high that the physical symptoms almost force you to overcome obstacles. Hopefully it doesn't get to that and you can tackle it earlier. Take a chance and be a little more clear in your intentions even though it feels weird.

Title	Really need some help seddit. 25 year old - absolutely zero encounters.
Author	panasupersonic
Upvotes	5
Comments	18
Date	November 9, 2011 12:24 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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