Just curious to know what you guys do to invoke a lasting impression on the girls you meet. I'm very busy these days, I'm usually out of town Monday through wednesday and some thursdays for work and because of this I'm usually forced to spend my weekends catching up on chores and errands and the occasional family and friends obligations.

This typically leaves my date night to Thursdays. Which is okay, most girls I meet prefer thursday to hang out anyway (I feel like friday/saturday night is a bad night to go out on a date anyway). Which leads me to my problem. Over the last few weeks, almost every girl I've set up a date with has bailed. Last nights 'date' had the nerve to tell me she was too tired to go out then sent me a selfie from the bar at 11pm!!

I feel like I don't can't make myself too available, I obviously do well enough meeting these girls that they give me their number, but the impression wasn't strong enough for them to go out with me. I feel like my text game in between is okay, I make jokes that get them laughing while being objective with regards to setting up a date ( feel like sharing your life stories over text does nothing but leave nothing to talk about on actual said date.

Am I just unlucky or is there something I could be doing better (or not doing)? How do you guys deal with flakes?