Recommend pls a good material on flirting

Captain_w00t · 2020-01-18T00:53:09+00:00

I suggest you a different path, go for social psychology books, they’re much more interesting to read and give you a better know how for social skills. Flirting is just a subpart of human interaction and needs calibration through reading the context.

You might start with a book about persuasion, like the books from Robert Cialdini, or something about body language from Joe Navarro.

There are many advantages in reading these kind of books rather than the usual PUA products:

they are based on real research, not on casual anecdotes from a random author
they don’t tell you what to do, instead they clearly explain the principles of how it works, then you can apply that knowledge on different contexts
sometimes they talk about everyday stuff to the point to look obvious or common sense, but the fact that it has been proven by research, is a lot more convincing.

This will help you to develop a more natural approach to social interactions in general, and flirting in particular.

PiperBigBell · 2020-01-18T01:25:13+00:00

Todd v

IShallPetYourDogo · 2020-01-18T11:43:04+00:00

How To Win Friends And Influence People, by far the best book I've read on social interactions so far,

and flirting is just a social interaction at its core, just add a bit of playful teasing in there and you've got yourself some grade A flirting,

Also stay away from books by pick up artists, until you have enough "field experience" to know what's what, most of them are just fiction directed at lonely people who will believe just about anything you tell them and you need the experience to know which of them are good and which are just BS

Title	Recommend pls a good material on flirting
Author	Riccardo91
Upvotes	5
Comments	3
Date	January 17, 2020 9:39 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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