So i had a good go this weekend and talked to alot of girls.

Anyways when i talk to a hottie, we get along and i always touch within the first 10 secs i usually got my arm around her or whatever, but after a while i start bringing up negative subjects, talking negatively and hoping that they will reject me(i think), if they don't, i reject them. I'm stucked here. Sometimes we makeout but after the makeout we just look at eachother and got nothing to say. Awkward as fuck. So then we split up.

I went up to a girl, cute blonde and just stared at her and smiled, she started winking at me a couple of times then i just kissed her and it was all good and we talked for a bit, touched some then we said goodbye.

Can anyone point me in the right direction here? I think i focus too much on learning that i forget that i want more then just a kiss?

It feels like i'm talking to them, but they don't really talk to me, and they just let me do my stuff to them and when i'm out of stuff to do it's over.