[request] a rookie guide.

DevonAero · 2015-07-10T08:08:54+00:00

Probably not what you wanna hear, but you don't need a 'guideline' in order to interact with girls. Think about it, talking/getting girls is all about being social and putting yourself out there and being honest about what you want. Social interactions aren't really something you can plan out. Get out of your head and into what's happening in the real world.

It'll be impossible to list every detail because things can go a million ways.

To answer your question tho:

1) Honestly approach her

2) Give her a genuine compliment if you want

3) Have a conversation, ask her about herself

4) Always be leading and escalate appropriately

5) get her number

That's mostly all there is to it, as long as you're confident you'll make it.

Here's some things to help you:

1) Read The Manual by W Anton

2) Read Models by Mark Manson

3) if you want a more detailed guide watch this video from RSD

4) that's all you need, get out there brah and good luck

killaswagyolo420 · 2015-07-10T13:25:11+00:00

That's not how life works. At all.

There are certain things you should do at certain times, there are common errors guys make at certain points. However....

You want to change how you are, develop yourself, work to become a more attractive man. The pursuit of this is what will bring you more quality women.

You need to be perpetually asking yourself "how can I act/look a way that I and women like more, what can I do to improve myself and my life?" Rather than seeking out a reference for what to do and say at all times.

IpickupGrandmothers · 2015-07-10T15:05:07+00:00

Seduction isn't about having a step-by-step list of what to do. That's not how socializing works. It's about following general principles/guidelines from which you can extrapolate information for specific situations. How you learn the implementation of these principles comes from practice and experience.

The problem is that you're fundamentally approaching this whole thing with the wrong mindset. There really isn't a "what to do" with the girl, because that varies from situation to situation, girl to girl. There really isn't a one-size-fits-all "to do" list.

Seduction isn't about robotically following a series of steps in order to extract sex from a woman. It's about creating an emotional connection with her (whether a ONS or FWB or LTR), empathizing with her, being confident, etc. You follow principles that guide you, not rules that dictate you. If you're robotically approaching seduction like, "if I input <x>, I will get output <y>", then you're going to have a bad time.

Honestly, you should ask yourself, "what am I avoiding right now?" There's a great deal of useful information out there that already exists. What's stopping you from going for that information?

Lefeudufou · 2015-07-10T15:13:42+00:00

Did you look into the Mystery Method?

Like other users, I strongly recommend mindset instead of canned lines :)

Title	[request] a rookie guide.
Author	Palypalpal
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	July 10, 2015 7:30 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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