went to a college party tonight, and although i talked to maybe 15+ guys to improve my social skills, but the girls i did talk to were clearly uninterested. i feel as if my attempts to flirt come off as either too try-hard or uninteresting, making the girl feel weirded out or her attention drifts elsewhere. i ask "hi, how are you" and other questions to get know them, start out with light kino, etc. but it doesnt get me any results. i can have fun, sure, that isnt hard, but i really want to get laid. i can manage to have fun, i do it at every party, but i want results. i don't know what to do any more and im starting to give up. i try doing interesting things with my life for the sake of what i want and all that, but... what am i missing??