If you look at my post history you will see that I made a recent post about how I felt like I was giving the "friend vibes" and I forgot who I was a couple of years ago. Consider this as the best answer you will get on how I've fixed it and probably the only good enough explanation out there you can get. Other guys must be doing it but if you ask them "how do you not give off friend vibes?", they will probably not know. Just remember just because you won't get rejected as a friend a woman can reject you based on so many other things that are on her "checklist" and that is what I found out.

Things that I did -

  1. The temp - Start the slow and build it up. I don't smile that much initially because you want them to feel like they earned your smile. You want me to be initially taken seriously before you crack the surface because you are still strangers. She shouldn't feel like you are friends and can talk about anything with you. That is friendly vibes
  2. I don't compliment them at all - I save my compliments for later on but I compliment them like her hair or her smile. And sometimes I yank their hair saying I was just checking if they had strong roots. Sometimes they grab my hair back or they get turned on. I do it jokingly. Never over compliment them. Also, you can compliment like - you are weird but in a good way ( this is kind of a neg but in a playful manner). Don't make obvious negs because this is not 2010 and they will know.
  3. Act like you are the prize - This goes back to not giving them too many compliments. Pretend like she can't just ask everything and know everything about you because that gets too friendly too quick. She needs to be a little scared of the information she chooses to share with you. Friends talk about everything with each other. A woman that is interested in you will reserve certain information because she wants you to like her.
  4. Pretend like she is fumbling on the dates - If you are confident and worked on yourself then you wouldn't be nervous and can control the pace of the conversation and direct it. In the examples below I did them very playfully and did not disrespect or demean anyone. I am playful by nature but I think people sit on pedestals in their heads. For example -
    1. "I was telling this girl that my family had a horse and she asked me if we had a lot of land. So I asked her if she was asking if my family was rich and raised my eyebrow. She started laughing and saying that is not what she was trying to come off as and hid her face blushing"
    2. I went to grab drinks for us but it was taking a long time at the bar. So after 10 minutes I went back without drinks and told her "Don't worry I didn't leave, they are just taking a long time" (I did this to be nice but also to nudge her)When I went back with the drinks she was like "It didn't even occur to me that you would have left, that would have been embarrassing" and she laughed.

She ended up giving me so many compliments, buying me hookah and drinks, and kept saying she wants to see me again and she can see this going somewhere.

This date obviously got very physical once we got to the next club and lasted 8 hours long. Even if you do all this and end up being this lover type figure, the problem with seduction is that it is not long-lasting and you can still get rejected for so many other reasons because you don't know what is happening in their life, if they are going through a breakup or if there is another guy in the picture etc

I went out with 2 different girls after this and used the same tactic and ended up with same kind of results. The least I can say is I remember who I was when I was actually good at this but it does not give fulfillment. I've then decided to take a long break from dating and seduction because the lows that come with highs don't match. But for the issue of never being seen as or rejected for "friendly vibes" here is your answer.