I'm not sure how to move forward with this girl.

We went to a big concert first date. Long show, took her back to my place and things went well for how long it went.

No hookup. I stupidly got too drunk and passed out. Long story.

She texted first next morning. I eventually failed a shit test. She tried to turn me into texting buddy/beta orbiter.

I pulled back and answered once a day very bluntly after she didn't reciprocate wanting to go out again.

After pulling back so much, she later apologized for not addressing my ask to go out. Didn't give her much or slide back into investing.

She asked if I was still going to a show, I answered somewhat bluntly said yes and what type of show it was. She responded with a "ooooh" because she likes that type of music. I didn't move to saying "so you want to go or anything" because I knew she still had more upper hand and if she wanted to go she would've asked what time etc.

Last night she asked me how the show went and was sorry she couldn't make it because she was moving. I answered bluntly, again. And then gave her some shit for moving during peak summer.

She responded bleh bleh.

Then I asked what her schedule is like this week.

Bleh bleh she'll be done moving after tn. She asked jokingly if I'd come help her.

So she's invested back in a bit, but I really can't tell if it's just to hook me into being texting buddy again. That's why I proceeded to move to logistics to see what the deal was.

Thing is given we went to a high energy first date, no hookup, I failed a shit test and things got somewhat weird in texting post-date (failed shit test, her trying to make me a texting buddy by complaining about her day, and me pulling back) I'm not sure where to lead this next.

Just keep it simple and drinks at a bar? Or a more relationship-like date thing like rock climbing. She did mention she likes more non-traditional dates.

Either way, I still need to re-establish my power after losing it. Doing an "active" date makes it seem sorta lame after some of my failings. Any idea how to do this next?