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Seduction gaining popularity

Barkingtaco · 2016-05-18T00:19:11+00:00

I've noticed that "seduction" has been on the rise for a while now, which is a good thing but I enjoyed it more when it was low key....

Barkingtaco

May 18, 2016

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Title	Seduction gaining popularity
Author	Barkingtaco
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	May 18, 2016 12:19 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/4jtz7j/seduction_gaining_popularity/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/seduction-gaining-popularity.1406918 https://theredarchive.com/post/1406918

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[–]Xoully 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link

The two downsides to seduction being on the rise are: (1) more competition from other men, and (2) more awareness from women.

(1) is technically a plus because yes, you want guys to be smooth because we get more sex/relationships and it makes both men and women happier. Talk about making the world a better place! But if a lot of people start to crowd the sub, there will be more people who don't know what they're talking about giving poor feedback.

(2) presents two problems: first, normal women who are aware of pickup technniques are going to be more resistant to them. As Kezia Noble writes in her book, the solution is to stay ahead of the curve and constantly change up your lines/tactics so your pickup is original and won't be recognized. Additionally, I would contend that men who are good-looking, fit, and well-dressed can better afford to have their pickup line recognized, since she will be happy that such an awesome guy is hitting on her. But I would not forgo the former point (of changing tactics regularly) to focus on this. Secondly, we might get miserable "feminists" trying to demean our efforts. I can't really say much for that sort of thing because seduction is only a tool. If someone wants to use seduction to get a girl drunk and bang her non-consensually, that's on them. But most of us should be using seduction to figure out our options so somewhere down the road we can settle into a nice LTR.

[–]Psychocist 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]TheXXL0 points 10 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]Xoully 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]TheXXL 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

A beginner in social interactions? If so, you should start small and talk to people in general, if you mean beginner in seduction, you can't be more wrong. Even as a beginner you should avoid canned material, since it never comes off genuine.

I don't even see the point in doing canned stuff, it doesn't drop panties anyways, as it purely serves as a crutch to counter insecurity.

Just a hint when approaching women: State your intent clearly, while having conversations you express your personality while being challenging and speaking your mind, and one thing that no woman will ever resist more just because of the seduction community being more popular is, Kino. The basic human way to show physical affection. If you follow that guideline, you don't need cringy canned material and stupid pickup lines.

[–]Xoully 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link