Alright so i’m super paranoid about accidental (or purposeful by the girl) pregnancy during condom use. Condoms are only 85% effective during typical use over the course of a year (the studies are few and far between, and don’t really provide any reassurance). So if you’re hooking up with a random girl, not only can you accidentally get her pregnant during condom use, she can force pregnancy by taking your condom out of the garbage and inserting your cum into her. These scenarios make me super paranoid of having to pay child support for 18 years. How can you possibly have one night stands with a peace of mind?

Furthermore, im travelling to a different country, and looks like they have reciprocal child support laws, meaning if I impregnate a girl that country, my government will still come after me to collect child support. This is why i’m thinking of getting a fake identity down there and never revealing my true identity to girls. Always going to their place, never using a credit card around them etc. This is for the possibility of pregnancy and the girl NOT wanting an abortion. The rules are so sexist. Am I overthinking this?

Also, what if the girl has a rape allegation the next day, even if it was consensual?

What about STI's, even if you wear a condom?

Do the risks not outweigh the rewards?