Early 20s in college. Developed some confidence and started going out with some girls. I got better with each girl, and eventually got oral. I almost had sex for the first time, but I was too nervous to get erect lol. I can't stop thinking about this wasted opportunity. The goal of losing my virginity and getting more girls is starting to consume my work and class.

I keep checking tinder, and thinking about the girls I did well with, or how I could have done better, how I could have lost my virginity but didn't. This used to not bother me so much, but now it has become a huge part of my life because I have got a taste of dating/sex.

I want to go back to prioritising my work and GPA over girls, but I'm pretty hooked. How can I fix my priorities?