Recently, after drinking too much and shit going down, my lady left me. Such a heartbreak, and storming the gates to win her back didn't work. Oh well, just gotta hold on with one hand while reaching higher with the next.

Since it was the last in a long line of alcoholic screw ups I'm going sober for good. Meetings and everything!

But I realized a HUGE portion of any of my initial interactions and even entire first/second dates with girls involved booze. It is entirely possible I've never had a completely sober first kiss with a girl I'm into. This all despite having avoided clubs for a couple years now.

Once into a relationship that issue goes away of course, but...

This brings me to my question. How the hell does sober game work?