When it comes to women, one can make the argument that it is pure economics: If you want more viable/desirable women, then you must increase your demand and decrease your supply. Within the context of women, I define “demand” as their overall desire for you, and I define “supply” as their overall ability and likelihood of finding a man like you. The natural question becomes, how does a man increase his demand and decrease his supply? You increase demand and decrease supply by controlling the thing that you can control – your actions. Your demand and supply is directly related to the actions that you take. You can’t control how people react to you, but you can control your actions.

Demand:

Think about things that you demand (or desire). Why is it that you demand these things? One of three reasons: 1. You feel you need it; 2. You feel you want it; or 3. You think that it will benefit you in accomplishing a goal of yours. This leads us to three questions pertaining to supply, demand, and women: How do you increase the feeling that women need you, want you, and/or can benefit from you being in their life? First you must understand that humans are limited; you cannot sell yourself to everyone; the only thing that you can do is maximize yourself to the best of your ability. This leads us to another question: How do you maximize yourself? To maximize yourself you need to have an idea of what you’re trying to do; you need to set goals that will help make the goal manifest into reality; examine everything that you have access to and assess how you can use it to assist you in accomplishing your goals; and then you need to try really hard to accomplish your goals. This is how you maximize yourself; when you maximize yourself you become useful; when you become useful and put yourself out there, your demand will grow; and when your demand grows, so too does your ability to get what you want.

Supply:

I think that supply goes hand in hand with demand. Basically, when you increase your demand by maxing out your abilities – which you do by utilizing every aspect on your environment in order to assist you in your growth toward your individualized goals – you reduce the supply, because it becomes harder for women to find a guy like you. Many times they will find men who are not the best version of themselves; sometimes they will find other men who, too, are maxed out – but these men won’t be you. And so if they want you, they’ll only be able to come to you to get it. This is what you want. So in other words, to decrease supply you need to work on being completely authentic and working toward being the best version of yourself; and you do that by using everything in your environment that you have access to and make it work to make you better!

Now go out there, stop being a wussy, and say hi to that lady!