Self-improving enough, still not getting confidence

yurifca · 2020-07-25T16:16:42+00:00

Dude, if you weren't doing all the stuff you're already doing (gym, grooming, etc) I would suggest you to do it, because it's a way to improve your life, regardless of seduction. Since you're already doing it all, you're only left with facing your insecurities and start doing everything you said you "can't", leading, approaching, joking.

It's like trying to be a soccer player, but only going to the gym and running and training, never playing the game. If you never play matches against other players, you're not doing what you're supposed to be doing, you're not testing yourself, you don't have any kind feedback regarding your improvement.

So, my advice is probably what you don't wanna listen, which is approach and try. Be bold and go for it, embarass yourself, be vulnerable. You can't learn seduction just by doing other stuff, you actually need to start conversations.

Carl3009 · 2020-07-25T16:11:03+00:00

Hmm maybe try to get out of your comfort zone more often. Like try new things and use opportunities where you can have to take the leading role. Talk with random people in a new environment. You will get better

Mr-Kabuki · 2020-07-25T20:29:11+00:00

Your going to learn most from actually doing rather than reading about doing. The gym and hygiene are great and can give you an edge but you don’t learn until you actually just start doing it. You’ll learn the most this way. If it’s too hard, start smaller.

Dodechaedron · 2020-07-25T23:40:01+00:00

Experience

Andress1 · 2020-07-26T16:48:46+00:00

You obviously don't have confidence with women because you aren't successful with women. The only way to be confident in one area is having a history of success.

Title	Self-improving enough, still not getting confidence
Author	_waterlemon_xd
Upvotes	7
Comments	7
Date	July 25, 2020 4:06 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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