So, I just got done talking a very close friend to mine. Long story short, I have issues with self validation. I read so much into how genetics (biology) play a factor, all of which I didn't good a good draw in (face structure, height, etc). When talking, I always go into a routine talking about school, work, and stuff like that, because I'm doing some cool amd impressive things, i.e I'd be considered attractive. But, thats mostly all i have (yes i go to the gym, but, who really cares that i do). I've been dancing for about 5 years now, but when I think about it, i think I started due to the fact that it'd get people to notice me away from the crowd, thus validated. All this, because I feel as though I'm not attractive by just being. So, with all this out in the open now, what kinds of things have you guys done to validate yourselves?