Shattering Bitch Shields

HeadOfTheClass · 2011-10-10T10:26:55+00:00

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sillymallard · 2011-10-10T05:18:17+00:00

Plowing has worked for me, but not as well as I would like it to. That is, start a soliloquy that lasts for 30-60 seconds about anything. If there are other people in the group, direct it to them and ignore her. I usually will just talk about what I'm doing that night, how my day/week has been, etc. At some point she'll realize you aren't phased by her negative vibes and realize that you're a bit different on the inside than many other guys, that you don't need her approval to be 100% happy. She'll ask you a question, or answer a question you ask the group. Or she'll keep her bitch shield up.

Skellyton · 2011-10-10T11:57:01+00:00

Well thats the worst kind of rejection, your approach was obviously off. Something like 'No' isnt even giving you an opportunity, it happens, move on.

dae3dae3 · 2011-10-11T14:48:36+00:00

I've always got along very well with the girls everybody else thinks are complete bitches. I have no idea how I manage to get through the bitch shields other than I tend to just ignore it. I respect confident women and that confidence often gets them labeled as bitches. You have to be strong though or they'll completely roll you and have no respect for you. Most people won't even attempt to get past the shield so they are often surprised when you aren't scared off.

In college I even set myself a challenge of breaking through a specific girls bitch shield. She was pretty awful to everybody but I was forced to be around her a bunch so I tried to make the best of it. I was just nice to her and talked to her and gave her shit about stuff. I can still pinpoint the moment I broke through the shield. She had to wear a pair of uniform pants one time and they were fit awfully and were literally hanging off her. I was walking about five feet behind her and I said "GirlsName, you look sooooo sexy in those pants" which was obviously not true and she stopped, looked at me for about five seconds, and then smiled. She was like a totally different person to me after that. The shield was gone for me but still very much in place for everybody else.

I guess my method probably wouldn't work too much on cold approaches but works well if you are in a situation where you are around them more like school or work. It is also a lot of effort and probably doesn't fit in well in the PUA community since it requires too much effort on a single girl. I probably wouldn't have bothered but I was in a lab type class with her about five hours a week and was partnered with her so it was almost like a hobby for me to try to crack her.

TL;DR: Be nice but don't take any shit from them.

Title	Shattering Bitch Shields
Author	HeadOfTheClass
Upvotes	3
Comments	9
Date	October 10, 2011 4:12 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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