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[–]Tyrion69Lannister 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You shouldn't give up after the first "ghost" though. It doesn't hurt to send another text. If she doesn't reply to that, then yeah cut the line
[–]Blurry-Nights 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You can ping her and ask her out once a week for quite a while actually. Sometimes girls will hook up with me a month later, it only takes a few seconds to ping
[–]Tyrion69Lannister 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
damn once a week? I usually just text twice in one week and dip if i don't get a response
[–]Blurry-Nights 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If a ghost replies to a ping but doesn't agree to the date, I'll try again in 3 - 5 days. If she doesn't reply, I'll try again in 5 - 7 days
[–]skeletor_shoots 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
i'm not disagreeing with you but like.... https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Occam%27s_razor she almost, definitely, positively, absolutely ghosting dude... don't beat yourself up, but denial isn't healthy mindset
[–]Blurry-Nights 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Haha, you obviously didn't read my post, did you? I said I meet up with the girls and we confirm the texts were missed. And then we move to WhatsApp or whatever. Happens all the time
[–]skeletor_shoots 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
sure that might have happened, but to make a post "like yo guys this might be the reason" is just dumb. you serious? happens all the time? c'mon man....
[–]-Mavs 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Chances are she didn't get your text at all, or you didn't get hers."
Haha
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