I know that this forum is all about ditching girls who are flakey, and only pursuing the women who are super into you. And I totally get that, it's all about knowing your own worth and not settling for flakiness or bad behavior.
But please bear with me here. I think that mindset is completely wrong if you're an average guy looking to bed models.
I'm a 6.5 or maybe a 7, and I fairly regularly bed 9's and 10's. I have a lot of experience here. And I'm telling you, they almost always flake on me or ghost me multiple times before I get them into bed. I put up with bad behavior because it gets me laid. Is that wrong? Am I doing this all wrong?
It's not uncommon for me to have to invite a hot girl out 5 or more times before she agrees to the first date. 10's just have SO many fucking options, and I'm not Channing Tatum, so I have to be persistent and charming. And it pays off fairly frequently.
If I were to only pursue women who are super-duper into me from the very start, and always ditched flakes, I would never sleep with these extremely attractive women. It's as simple as that.
If I was Channing Tatum, I could ditch flakey 9's and 10's, because I'd have so many options. But I'm not, and I don't.
Guys, I know how much it sucks to play the game. But every time someone says they don't get a text back from a girl, the community is like "just move on". Well, if I always did that, I would have missed out on SO many mind-blowing nights. I always keep pinging them, and that persistence pays HUGE dividends.
I hate the tactics and the strategies for flakey girls, but they work. And I'm going to keep doing them begrudgingly, because it gets me results.
I want to know your guys' take on this topic. What is your philosophy and why? Also, are you a 9 or 10 yourself? Because I don't think you can understand where I'm coming from unless you're fairly average looking.
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