Long story, please read, might be quite interesting. So I met a girl like 3 months ago, we hang out a few times, and we had a lot of fun. The first two times we slept together we had sex, all the other times we slept together we didn't. So now comes the thing. I asked her for a kiss a few days ago, and I was just joking a lot, and the more she avoided the kiss, the more I wanted it. I just let it go because I'm a good guy and no means no. I already excepted my faith as being a friend of her, I put away my feelings for her. I didn't really care. But now she texted me why I was behaving like that. She wanted to know why I wanted this kiss. I just told her I was joking around and it didn't mean anything. But she kept texting and texting and she just wanted to know. She just didn't feel like we were friends and such. Two days later I slept at her house again and I said I wanted things to be clear too. I told her I had feelings for her, she said she liked me to, she said a lot of cute things, even called me baby when she asked for something to drink. I was really happy, but I left my bike outside so I went out to put it inside. When I returned and I decided to touch her, she behaved in a very strange way. I said I thought you liked me? She said Huh? She said she was very tired, confused and forgets lots of stuff about what she said. So I got a bit angry because I felt like she was playing with my feeling I had hidden for such a long time. She said she didn't really say anything the 10 minutes before I put my bike inside lol. So I told her just be clear to me. She said I really like you, but not 100,000% and she doesn't want a relationship at all. I told her that if she just shut up about all of this nothing would have ever happened, and we would just remained friends like we are now. But she really hurted me that way. So in conclusion: she likes me, but not 100,000%? What do I need to do? I feel like Fuck you, don't play with me, I don't care about you, go hang out with someone else.. But the situation didn't really change but now she said she liked me I'm really confused. She just kept saying things went really strange, she doesn't know what to do with me, and she is really confused. Is there a way for me to let her really like me or do I need to cut off every form of communication? What if she texts me to hang out again?
Tl;dr: met girl, hang out a lot, had sex twice, she said she liked me so I thought she might be my new girlfriend, 10 minutes later she says she is confused and doesn't like me 100,000 percent, doesn't want relationship. It feels like she played me for those 10 minutes, there was no reason to text me about our relationship status. I WAS ok with being friends. What if she texts me again? It hurted me.
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