There's a ton of info out there about how to pass various shit tests. And, if you're like me, you know there's at least 20 different ways to skin the same cat.

I won't rehash that here. Some of it works, some of it doesn't - you should go out there and try it all.

Let's talk some more about shit tests as a concept, though.

See, whenever I see a guy ask about a shit test, it tells me two things about him:

  1. He's a glutton for punishment
  2. There aren't enough women in his life

Some might disagree with me here. Fine.

But, I think that 90% of the time, if you're a cool, fun guy with good things going on in your life, a woman who shit tests you repeatedly is the walking trifecta of entitled, manipulative, and not worth it.

In my life, when I feel like I'm being shit tested, I ask myself the following:

Is this woman full-on crazy?

One example was a time a bartender asked me to buy a drink for her at the bar she works at WHILE she was working, saying that all her favorite customers did so regularly.

Now, I might be the only person who thinks that's weird.

But right when I realized I was thinking about how to turn that situation around so that I could "demonstrate my value" and "dominate the situation" in order to "win," I paid my tab, said "maybe another time when you're not working," and moved to another bar with absolutely no intention of dealing with her again.

Some of you may disagree with me on two fronts. The first being that I didn't "beat" the shit test. Others would say "Vichet, you need to give girls a chance, lololol."

Right. Fine. YOU can do all that.

But, the way I see it, a shit test is the verbal equivalent of a woman smacking you in the face to see how you react.

And that was a pretty tame example.

Anyway, my take is that you don't "win" with these women. You simply tolerate them. And, honestly, if you're spending all your time figuring out how to tolerate terrible women who give you a hard time just because, I really see you as losing at life.

TL;DR

In the vast majority of cases, a woman's shit test is more an indication of how terrible she is than it is a test of your character.

You can read my full spiel on this at Table Theory.