Shit Tests

DriedUpPlum · 2019-06-07T01:52:16+00:00

Get out in the field! Seriously, online dating isn’t the most conducive environment to convey your confidence and personality. You also won’t be able to get a good ping on who someone really is online.

Job, physical looks and the such can get your foot in the door online but they aren’t going to do the same for you in person. Doing better with people in person will help you when you choose to try to do online dating.

No matter what you are going to be “shit tested” women do this out of necessity. They need to be far more careful in whole they date or go home with than men do. Don’t blame them for it.

If your inner game is true and you aren’t a predator then shit tests will just roll off your and you will practically beg to have them thrown you way because each one you pass jacks up her attraction for you by orders of magnitude. Nearly all of the can be passed by not being needy or over investing emotionally too soon after meeting someone.

A man that isn’t desperate and doesn’t try to mask his intentions isn’t likely to get obsessive or creepy.

This will play into online game as well since you make it clear very quickly through your actions that you arent ready to throw everything you have behind trying to meet up with her. You aren’t acting like the 50 other guys trying to talk to her constantly because they are afraid of losing her interest. Online your ultimate shit test will be ghosting. This test and reveals volumes about a man’s sense of confidence and neediness.

If “shit tests” are your biggest weakness then you need to assess your emotional investment in the encounter. Why is it messing with you? Really think about what the test is trying to uncover. Women and men are constantly trying to get as much information out of someone before engaging physically or romantically. Women have their games just like we have ours. Embrace and learn to play them. You’ll both have way more fun.

dailymanup · 2019-06-07T06:40:23+00:00

Agreed. But I wouldn't let shit tests bug you too much. You do them to her also. Even when you don't realize it. It's just human nature to "test something" that you don't know much about.

Here's how to pass any shit test.

For your desire to just approach woman and have them like you, try the fuck it approach.

wowzacowza · 2019-06-07T02:34:26+00:00

Genuine women will still shit test you. You can be wealthy, attractive, and smart, and also have a basement filled with disemboweled squirrels you do puppet shows with. She needs to determine your social and emotional calibration. For women, it can literally be life and death. You know that you're a good guy with no plans to decapitate her, but she doesn't know that. So be a trooper, play along, and you'll be fine and so will she.

EvenKealed · 2019-06-07T10:11:07+00:00

Thanks all

Title	Shit Tests
Author	EvenKealed
Upvotes	4
Comments	5
Date	June 7, 2019 1:20 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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