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[–]goodasspua 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You didn't have to "apologise" but you could've softened the situation by giving it a day or two and sending something random as if nothing happened
[–]ssr02031 point 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I apologised the next morning and I even said that she could have used some emojis if she's was being funny cz it's hard to understand emotions on text. But she didn't responded to all that.
[–]DizzyxSin 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
If you did something wrong apologise, if not don't.
[–]ssr0203 6 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Yes I realised maybe I reacted a bit much. And for that I apologised too but she didn't responded on that. Maybe she wants more attention idk.
[–]DizzyxSin 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You must be able to think for yourself and judge whether you did something wrong. No one can do it for you. But really ask yourself who is she that you let her occupy your mind rent-free and make you worry so much that you have to make an internet post on it? You have other things to do and there are other girls to talk to.
It's not like I'm totally into her. It's just I'm not sure if I was wrong and I don't wnna loose a very good friend just by me being stupid . That's why I decided to make an internet post about this so that any one can tell if I was being totally unreasonable or not.
[–]coanouser 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Don't follow those comments that say "don't apologize to a women". Now I know why so much people hate this sub.
Listen, you know you overreacted, you recognized your mistake and overreacted. Give her a couple of times and start talking like if nothing has happened.
You can't think that an apologize is enough to repair any situation, so she is in her right if she doesn't want to talk you again. If she replies you, you will know what to expect of her and learn how she jokes; if she doesn't reply you again, just move on.
I did apologize to her next morning and I also said its hard to understand the feeling on the text. You should have used some emojis or so but she didn't respond anything to it.
[–]Illimitible 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You sound very young. Get hold of Mystery Method - and read it at least twice. It will teach you a lot about women and seduction
[–]hunchback1 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Never apologize
[–]Mhotdemnot 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You said you already apologized, why are you asking if you should apologize?
[–]ssr0203 6 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
I've apologised once and as far as my experience with girls they don't forgive so easily. They like to get more attention.
[–]Mhotdemnot 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You sound like you're young. Please change your mindset of giving girls attention because they crave it. You're going to get played like a sucker if you don't.
[–]quinnmcd[M] [score hidden] 6 years ago stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]Illimitible -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Don’t apologise to women- and move on and talk to another one.
Yea I didn't wanted to sound desperate either. I've already apologized once not gonna apologize again. Altho I miss talking to her and this is one of those moments.
[–]BarneyFighter 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Focus on something diffrent for now, in a few days you write her again. Don‘t act needy.
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