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[–]Beast___Mode 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well I don't think she is shit testing you. Women make shit tests in order to see how you gonna react but not to that extent where she hurts your feelings by talking about a guy who fucked her. Set a boundaries and make it clear that you just not interested in seeing or hearing whom she is sleeping with. Otherwise I would simply drop that plate and move on. Also, long distance relationship is not a relationship imo. In this case she is juts irrelevant.
[–]JerryLawlerPigFace 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks man. Yeah I don’t really think they’re shit tests either, just kinda fucked up behavior. I did set the boundary when the details about other guys were still somewhat mild, I did it as casual as I could but still, she clearly picked up on the fact that it bothered me.
[–]OGthelegendaryplaya 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You fell in love with a hoe. You could've kept hitting, but you don't wanna ltr a hoe.
Im thinking she realized you were catching feelings and wanted to make it clear she's just having fun.
Blocking her makes it seem like you're in your feelings. But, if you can't handle the snaps, you have to.
Regardless, you gotta let those feelings go. She's enjoying yourself and you have to do the same.
[–]JerryLawlerPigFace 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks man, and I agree. That’s all I have been thinking is that I totally misperceived the situation and caught feelings for a slut that managed to disguise herself as LTR material for a few months.
But that’s a great point and I truly never thought of it that much, probably because I projected my feelings into her so much, but maybe she was trying to just show me that she wanted to keep things nonexclusive.
I could’ve kept her around to bang but because I caught feelings I think the situation is cooked. I’m too attached and wouldn’t be able to handle her fucking other dudes and whatnot while she’s home.
Since i told her we’re done I omg anticipate anymore snaps from her, I mean I’d instantly block her if that were the case now, but maybe I should just try to exercise emotional control and not give a fuck about blocking her
[–]zfgee 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, you failed the shit tests so they escalated and you failed those so you're done. Game over. GG. 99% she wasn't trying to hurt you, just test you. Never react or get your feathers ruffled. She says she kissed a guy "Cool, I bet he was a great kisser, can I get his phone number?" or something equally silly and non-reactive. She just wanted to see what you were made of and you crumbled, thus you're not an alpha, thus she lost attraction.
Anyway, just get over it. Maybe one day when you evolve, she'll reach out and you can show her you're not a beta butthurt chode anymore ;)
[–]JerryLawlerPigFace 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Agreed man. I’ve been a self admitted beta my entire life with women, and my immediate reaction to shit tests over the years has to get extremely hurt. I can’t imagine how many girls I fucked things up with because I just didn’t know any better.
The good news is that this whole experience taught me a ton. Not only about shit tests but about my own attachment style.
[–]zfgee 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes. Valuable learnings. Keep failing, learning and growing :)
[–]wawakaka 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just block her and go Batman for a while
Chick is a total slut you deserve better than a nympho cum dumpster
She's a one trick pony and she knows it sex is all she is and all she has
[–]GuyFromDaStore 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why do you want this slut? eyuh.
I think that’s why I feel so awful, is because I know now after all this time that 1) she’s not a great person 2) she’s a slut that’s probably getting slammed nightly.
My problem is that I caught feelings before coming to this realization and it’s insanely hard to get myself to just not care. Maybe it’s because there was so much time invested? Who knows. I guess I should give myself a little credit for even walking away. Full blown beta me would’ve just kept getting strung along, and for all I know she probably wouldn’t have even wanted to fuck me when she got home.
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