Should I care about response time?

BeeBopJoe · 2022-06-26T01:39:50+00:00

You are waiting 3 days to text the chick you have been on 2 dates with? You are being way too aloof, if you like her you shouldn't be waiting that long.

nevertextgoodnight · 2022-06-26T02:49:39+00:00

Dude you're fine but after the second date she should be initiating texts mostly. I wouldn't listen to contrary advice to text more. Yes, her texting slowly is not the best sign so all you need to do is match and mirror her. Honestly I'd pull back until she reaches out then set up the next date

If you start thinking you need to initiate a text every day like the other guy says then she's def going to stop responding all together. Think, if she's taking 24 hours to respond why would you text her more?

Just get that 3rd date, and give her space to text you first. It should be 80% her initiating especially after 3 dates or a month. If it's 100% you, she's eventually going to fade out

Edit: I just read your thread on the other comment. So you're texting too much. Texting her the day after a date is not good. Too clingy, she needs time to daydream about the date and she would prob have texted you first after the date if you didn't text her. So if you get that 3rd date, do not text her after and give her time to hit you up first after she's been wondering about you

mrblack-- · 2022-06-26T02:56:29+00:00

To a grown up I’d say just relax… but y’all 17, she’s just not into you dude.

santa0506 · 2022-06-26T13:22:29+00:00

You are not here priority for now bro

santa0506 · 2022-06-26T14:31:52+00:00

Exactly bruh

Title	Should I care about response time?
Author	CaptainRiege05
Upvotes	6
Comments	24
Date	June 26, 2022 1:03 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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