should i develop the same qualities as the girls i want?

RandianHero · 2015-04-04T16:42:29+00:00

Develop the qualities that you want, not ones you think other people will want. Never change who you are to accommodate someone else. At best, you'll seem disingenuous. At worst, you'll seem like a sycophantic pushover who seeks people's approval.

windowtothesoul · 2015-04-04T17:29:22+00:00

I'd be willing to bet that the qualities you like in girls are qualities you highly value in human-beings, generally. So yes you should develop those qualities; you should do it because they are qualities that you value, not because girls that you're attracted to possess them.

TalkToPlants · 2015-04-04T16:15:42+00:00

Only insofar as those qualities are qualities that you yourself genuinely have or want to develop. Not sure what the consensus is on this sub, but broadly speaking, if I'm pursuing something and it's sole purpose is to up the body count then I consider it a waste of time.

Big_TX · 2015-04-04T16:52:51+00:00

Like if you want generous Girl's, then donating will probably help you get them, if you are materialistic it will probably turn them off.

If you want supper outgoing social butter fly girls, it would help you to cultivate those qualities.

So yes if you become intelegent confident and in Control if yourself and life it will attract those girls. If you have not self control and just role with life, a discipline girl whith goals she is actively working towards, would be turned off. (At least for relationships.)

All that being said, there are exceptions to everything. RSDJulien use the be much more of a dick head. He had a doctor girlfriend, who was addicted to he due to the drama he caused. She liked the range of emotions he provided here, and she could get it from no where els.

She was Realy hot and a doctor. He was really sloop fat. He smoked and would get drunk off 4loco go bang a chick then call her to pick him up. I think he worked in retail at the time.

I sure that "technique" won't work on most women, but it goes to show there are two sides to everything."

Title	should i develop the same qualities as the girls i want?
Author	cavainmarch
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Comments	5
Date	April 4, 2015 3:57 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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