Should I ditch her?

Felixisnext · 2022-01-29T01:30:59+00:00

She knows he’s creepy yet proceeds to FaceTime with that “creep” for an hour. Imagine how long she’d FaceTime a above average good looking guy. Of course you imagine whatever scenario, could be right, could be wrong. Don’t stress about it and have her chase you. As a man you lead, she follows. If she’s leading and you follow, you won’t know how it’ll end for you. It’s a good thing that she told you tho, I’ll give her that. She seems open to talk to you about something she could’ve hid from you. The only thing that exists is this present moment, unless she’s truly up to no good with some straight up evidence take it as a lesson to tame yourself to not worry about her and develop on your emotional intelligence. I suggest having options. There’s no rush to commit, if it’s meant to be it’ll be. Take your time, much love bro. always stay real

Ray05x · 2022-01-29T00:38:47+00:00

If she’s interested and u really like her just keep going, girls have friends and stuff so this is pretty normal. If that doesn’t affect what you are tryning to have with her then don’t make it a big deal

MrStallion22 · 2022-01-29T01:06:27+00:00

I’m going to assume you’re younger because your comment reads like it… this doesn’t sound like anything to be worried about and I wouldn’t waste much brain energy on it. Focus on actually doing stuff with this girl in person that you wanna do rather than wasting your energy wandering what she’s doing via phone calls

oreopimp · 2022-01-29T02:34:46+00:00

Since this sounds like the beginning of hanging out...in my shoes things would be super low key casual, I'm seeing other girls and she may or may not be seeing other guys (until she brings up wanting a relationship, there is zero talk on being exclusive or interest on my part). So since things are casual I wouldn't even care just say something like "wild" (like an acknowledgement of what she said but really means 'why are you telling me this story, what does this have to do with me') if she kept pressing it I'd just say 'everybody has to get their rocks off somehow' and just change the subject and go out for drinks, have a good time, and get laid together instead of wasting time on this nonsense drama.

Unless I am wrong, you're not in a committed relationship, yet even with so little info your comment tells me there is something fundamentally wrong with your mindset. If you're not committed, what is the point of even care about this? How would you even be wasting your time because if she's not even your girl, you're not committed but you guys are having fun, hooking up, and it ends, cool you had a great time for 3 weeks, part as friends, and you can chill or hang out with other girls you've been talking to. I'm confused.

If you're goal is a relationship, the best way to find that relationship is not to apply pressure for it to exist.

Don't over invest. Keep things low key. Zero pressure for a relationship. You're free and she is free until she has a urge to have a commitment with you. Have fun with other women.

kodu5 · 2022-01-29T01:37:12+00:00

Sounds f’d up

verticalstars · 2022-01-29T11:35:51+00:00

Keep it casual with this one.

Title	Should I ditch her?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	January 29, 2022 12:27 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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