Hopefully that title caught your attention.

Im 21, male, straight, and have been called handsome, a model, good looking, smart etc. The only problem is that I have never had a serious relationship. I've only had elementary school dates and such.

Im very observant and don't say much but I wouldn't say that i'm shy. I love my alone time. I have had opportunities to have a relationship with girls but I always end up thinking I would feel more comfortable being alone, doing my own thing. I end up feeling like I deserve better girls.

I get the feeling like having a girl friend is the norm now, and if you don't have one people think there is something wrong with you, or they think you aren't interested in women. I feel like it would be easier to have a girlfriend so as to relieve the pressures from friends and colleagues.

So this new girl comes to work. Good looking, quiet, nice, great smile, someone i'd be interested in. So I get to know her a little more. According to colleagues she has a crush on me but I dont know what to do from here.

Advice on whether im a pussy for thinking I "need" a girlfriend or if im a strong individual who should wait for the perfect girl.

Thanks,