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[–][deleted] [score hidden] 5 years ago stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link
This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.
Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?
As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.
[–]Tinderella80 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I don’t really see the point. Just put in recent photos of yourself. A range of photos through the years isn’t necessary and personally I don’t think it adds anything.
[–]Btxfornow -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What would you think would be the oldest? How about a one year old photo? (with beard, I stopped shaving in 2018)
[–]This_is_Vokra 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A good rule of thumb is to choose photos that aren't older than a year or two. People's appearances can fluctuate too much given any more time than that and on tinder the only real aspect is your personal appearance.
[–]Tinderella80 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Personally I wouldn’t use anything more than six months old. It’s weird looking at a guys profile and their photos are literally from 20-40 and you end up with no idea what they look like now.
[–]Therocksays2020 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You don’t need to explain photos most women don’t read bios anyways. If you still have a beard I don’t see why you need a photo without the beard.
Just for variety
[–]Therocksays2020 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You don’t need variety of looks. Just you doing different things. Don’t complicate things.
If you are self conscious about the beard. Shave it and post photos without it
[–]atomant88 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
variety is bad. its unfocused. its cluttered. mixed messages. be aggressively yourself and you'll have better luck.
i used to have photos of me in streetwear and in business attire, as soon as i removed the business pics my responses went up by like 50%. be focused on your brand. sell them an image. dont confuse that image
advertise whats in stock today. keep your photos recent
[–]Oladin 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Do women include photos without makeup on?
[–]Btxfornow 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good point
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