Hi guys,

There is this perfect looking and smart girl that was really into me 7 years ago... At that time she has been trying hard to get me for a long time. Although I liked her, I was not in love. We have been meeting each other once or twice a year, usually when I was bored... The dates were mostly just kissing and nothing more than BJ. Then I have usually left her for another girl.

I have met her again this January after 3 years of not seeing each other. The date went well. We have been kissing at the end and it seemed like she wanted to go into my apartment... It was not possible, so I just booked her an Uber and sent her home. She sent me a message that she liked the date (and me) and thing were looking great.

I asked her to meet me again, but she has told me that she has exams (medical university, super hard) and that she would really like to meet me after the exams are done in a few weeks. I respected it. I have been trying to keep in contact, but not texting too much - I think I did it right, she seemed super interested in me - she has sent me a picture of herself (nude, but elegant without properly seeing anything), texts about us having sex, replying instantly to my messages, etc.

However she did not pass 2 of her exams and our date had to be postponed for another 2 weeks. This is the part where I fucked it up I guess. There was a 10 days window where she had the first compensatory exam and the last compensatory exam... And I started pushing harder... I have tried to settle a date for the next day / in the evening after her first compensatory exam. She told me she will go IF she pass the exams. I told her that in this case I can not book a place in a restaurant and she can go into my apartment. She agreed. At this time I started to be super kind (I thought I owe it to her after being mean to her in the past) and was cheering her up regarding the exams a lot. I have sent her supportive message in the morning and she texted me that she passed the exams. That is where I fucked it up a lot:

ME: Great job! So you will be in a great mood today!
HER: Well I am thinking of celebrating with my mum...
ME: Then don't think, I have a champagne ready!
HER: And couldn't we postponed it..? <3 <3 <3
ME: Noo, come today
(her: No reaction for 5 hours)
ME: It would be great to let me know if you will come tonight or if I should plan my evening
(her: No reaction for 11 days... till now)

So I fucked it up by not playing too hard to get, by being needy, by having a bad text game. Although I am not losing my mind, I would really love to get some suggestions. Is there something I can do (text her, etc.) or should I forget about her..?