Context: I (24M) had a (25F) girlfriend for 6 years, we broke up in our 6 year anniversary, we still love each other in a much more caring and familiar way but we know our life plans aren’t compatible and that’s why we broke up…

I started dating again (that’s a midlife crisis statement right there lol) after those 6 years, I feel a bit rusty, game hasn’t been played for long so I need to get in the groove again, I’m however a really laid back and confident man, I look good, I’m a boxer and my business does fine.

This week I got a date with a beautiful Belarusian girl, she’s just brilliant, we have a similar music taste, and lives the live style I pursue, so everything seemed perfect, we texted a few times on Instagram, absolutely no needy texts just great text game right there lol, I set up a date, she agrees immediately:

I went get her, we hug, she doesn’t speak my language nor do I hers, but we both speak English so date is in English mostly, we spent good time having great coffee, I got to know her better, and we really had a great conversation I teased her and I had loads of fun, if I have to say I think I lacked some flirting, however date went great, but when taking her back home I never a single time thought about kissing her, not because we didn’t have a connection but I felt it was a rush, she’s leaving but she’ll be back in two months, we got a few dates set up for when she comes back so 🤷🏻‍♂️

We exchanged a few extra texts, I think they were good game also lol, but the flirting and kiss part got me thinking of if I should’ve gone for it… thanks for your kind suggestions and comments, and your not so kind ones too.