prolly flirt, smile, get to know them as a person, etc. it’s “ easier” to say these things about your homeboys cause you’d never feel like you could be a genuine creep around/flirting with them. Never like a sexual threat. Cause you’re just fucking around or could never threaten/take advantage of them. The power plane is equal

do the same thing with girls. Even though the power plane may feel different. Like you’re scared that you’re flirting too much and fear that they’re interpreting you as taking advantage of them or being too pushy even though they never said anything.

do the same thing with girls and you’ll prolly have more success. Girls aren’t that different. Just lead them a little more

If your homeboys don’t see you as creepy. Then the girls shouldn’t

You’re only a creep when you’re not authentic.

Just don’t try to be so calculated with your seduction. Would you try and do this with your boys??? Nah, you’d be like “fuck this, I got this. Shits easy.” You’d prolly just focus on what I said up above. Notice that it’s NOT THAT MUCH.

If you were thinking of seducing your homeboys, you wouldn’t stress the little things of like “should I double text?” “should I smile or not?” “should I ignore her to make her chase me?” You really wouldn’t care. And you would intuitively know that many of these things don’t matter

So why different with girls?? They’re not a entirely different creature.