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| 1 | Why do so many men fail at first-date sex if a lot of women are open to it?Honestly dude, if you’re looking for first-date sex and the girl gives it up. Gl with your dick falling off | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 06:26 PM |
| 1 | If a Girl Looks at You for Even a Split Second, Do Thisrather say my pp likes u over destiny brought us together smh | /r/seduction | 23/04/25 01:53 AM |
| 55 | Loners: Prioritize making female friends over trying to pull girlsyea that’s what I thought too. It’s like an investment where you have to work less and less as time goes on but with cold approach, you always have to put the same amount of effort because you never BUILT anything | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 07:03 PM |
| 0 | Direct Approach: “can I sit down here?”but you’re on a sub which is literally advice for talking to people??? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Direct approach: “can I sit down here?”wdym by go for no?? | /r/seduction | 06/04/24 04:28 AM |
| 0 | Direct Approach: “can I sit down here?”alright bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 03:50 AM |
| 3 | Direct Approach: “can I sit down here?”what if she’s extremely attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 02:29 AM |
| 6 | Direct approach: “can I sit down here?”No purpose other than to develop the habit of approaching people | /r/seduction | 06/04/24 01:48 AM |
| 10 | Direct approach: “can I sit down here?”thanks. Looks like I need some sales experience | /r/seduction | 06/04/24 12:59 AM |
| 6 | Direct approach: “can I sit down here?”how to do that tho | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 11:50 PM |
| 2 | When people say “don’t confess your feelings”, what do they actually mean?I flirt naturally but idk how to sexually escalate. Any recommendations? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 01:28 AM |
| 1 | If humans are extremely loss averse, then why isn’t it more common for someone to want someone who is no longer interested in them?great comment. Just reflecting on it rn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 07:09 PM |
| 1 | What should the goal be? Girlfriend or roaster?I will dm you | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 02:16 AM |
| 2 | What should the goal be? Girlfriend or roaster?Never pursue for a relationship? Or never pursue in general? isn’t is masculine to go and take what you want? also, with my specific situation. I was being a bitch and basically told the girl “whenever you’re ready, I’ll wait for you” when referring to intimacy cause I thought she had feelings for me and that was the respectful thing to do And she basically rejected that too lol What would you have done in my situation | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 01:58 AM |
| 1 | What should the goal be? Girlfriend or roaster?so you’re saying don’t pursue or?? How to implement what you’re saying There was recently a situation where I showed a girl all my “cards” by making a move on her but she rejected me. Then I was like “I’m super attracted to you.” But now I’m being more reserved with my attention. You already think I fked up tho and ruined the fun by giving her that?? Idk Cause I made a move and tried to double down on it. Wasn’t gonna get rejected and be like, “oh fk you I didn’t like you anyways.” Thoughts | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 01:01 AM |
| – | Which is true, you want what you can’t have or reciprocal liking?but how are you playing hard to get then? Showing interest but + veery little availability?? Cause if I show her no interest, then playing hard to get can just show that I’m not interested and place me into the friend zons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 05:43 PM |
| – | Which is true, you want what you can’t have or reciprocal liking?This post is slightly different Thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 05:29 PM |
| – | Which is true, you want what you can’t have or reciprocal liking?okay. But do you think that telling them that you’re very attracted to them after them giving mixed signals, may help them potentially see you in a New Romantic lighting (given that they haven’t before)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 05:25 PM |
| 1 | If humans are extremely loss averse, then why isn’t it more common for someone to want someone who is no longer interested in them?Sure. But I wasn’t always available. I said no to her sometimes, etc. how is this not being scarce? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 05:17 PM |
| 1 | If humans are extremely loss averse, then why isn’t it more common for someone to want someone who is no longer interested in them?I was acting scarce. But then I made a move and the didn’t reciprocate back. So I told her that I’m attracted to her. That’s all But what about the concept of reciprocal liking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 05:08 PM |
| 0 | If humans are extremely loss averse, then why isn’t it more common for someone to want someone who is no longer interested in them?Ik she’s platonically emotionally invested in me fs. But I was surprised when she told me “I never thought of it” when I mentioned more Dk if platonic emotional investment is enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 08:45 AM |
| 1 | I had sex with a girl that I actively tried to NOT meet - If she likes you, she likes youyes. If she likes you, she’ll make it easy for you | /r/seduction | 02/09/23 08:35 PM |
| 2 | The 6 habits of highly attractive men.optimism??? I’m pessimistic but still ambitious asf brody | /r/seduction | 05/05/23 05:53 PM |
| 3 | You're not in a job interview, you're the employer.L. Only works if you’re already the shit. If you ain’t, then be a good employee Organically earn your way to being an employer | /r/seduction | 21/04/23 03:24 AM |
| 1 | The job search is the same experience as the dating marketyou can improve your social status. Which is attractive to woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 09:28 AM |
| 1 | The job search is the same experience as the dating marketNo contradiction It just means I have to work harder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 03:57 PM |
| 3 | The job search is the same experience as the dating marketmaybe cause they know they deserve better(given their academic success) and try for the better jobs until they get one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 01:32 AM |
| 4 | The job search is the same experience as the dating marketcan’t start screening unless you already have options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 01:30 AM |
| 4 | The job search is the same experience as the dating marketthe man also becomes the employer when he has high status and has options. But not when you’re starting out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 10:45 PM |
| 12 | The job search is the same experience as the dating marketyou just proved my point. Your friend( a new grad) got the same opportunity as a dude with 15 yrs of experience. the dude from a worse university had to work harder to get the same result. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 10:20 PM |
| 0 | The less physically attractive a man is, the better they have to bethey aren’t good enough. It’s always a competition | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 05:57 AM |
| -1 | The less physically attractive a man is, the better they have to beI rather have status and personality over physical attractiveness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 11:55 PM |
| 6 | Philosophy: Only date people who like being cared forthat’s what I meant by by 2nd point. ‘They give the same back’ meaning they also care for you Keep in mind I’m also writing from the male perspective which generally assumes the man being the first to take initiative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Human behavior is consistent across multiple domains(from jobs to seduction). So rejection isn’t personal. It’s human naturemaybe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Human behavior is consistent across multiple domains(from jobs to seduction). So rejection isn’t personal. It’s human naturesays who? way too simple view of the world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Human behavior is consistent across multiple domains(from jobs to seduction). So rejection isn’t personal. It’s human naturegreat argument 👍👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Human behavior is consistent across multiple domains(from jobs to seduction). So rejection isn’t personal. It’s human natureok Karen. Way to have strong opinions without mentioning any evidence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Human behavior is consistent across multiple domains(from jobs to seduction). So rejection isn’t personal. It’s human nature?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Human behavior is consistent across multiple domains(from jobs to seduction). So rejection isn’t personal. It’s human natureI don’t think so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Human behavior is consistent across multiple domains(from jobs to seduction). So rejection isn’t personal. It’s human naturenot denial. I’m terrible at first impressions Let’s say a chick meets me and judges my whole persona based off my first impression. That would be very inaccurate. Besides, even if a person does “know me”. It’s easy for a person to change their personality. So nowone can ever truly be rejected, just what you’re presenting. I see personality as a skill like anything else. If you say doing x, y,z makes you more attractive, ANYONE can learn to do that once they are aware of it. It’s nothing personal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Human behavior is consistent across multiple domains(from jobs to seduction). So rejection isn’t personal. It’s human natureexactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 06:07 AM |
| 6 | Human behavior is consistent across multiple domains(from jobs to seduction). So rejection isn’t personal. It’s human natureI believe this because I don’t think personality is intrinsic. And it changes over time. So they only reject what I’m presenting to them, not really me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Human behavior is consistent across multiple domains(from jobs to seduction). So rejection isn’t personal. It’s human naturethe same applies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 05:09 AM |
| 1 | How do I get past my limiting belief of age?always start small | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 06:28 AM |
| 1 | How do I get over the fact that I’m not a tall white dude?yes it is. Initially, you need enough positive external validation to build self confidence/esteem. With enough of that, then you’ll naturally start to love yourself more and care less about what others say | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 04:16 AM |
| 1 | What are some mantras, mottos or quotes you tell yourself?live in pain until it becomes comfortable | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 04:05 AM |
| 2 | What are some mantras, mottos or quotes you tell yourself?not really. Worse she can do is laugh at you and humiliate you | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 04:04 AM |
| 2 | What are some mantras, mottos or quotes you tell yourself?Mormon | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Should I hide a political book because a girl will come watch a movie with me?Polarizing things tend to have polarizing responses. If you wanna flip the coin then go ahead | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 02:51 AM |
| 10 | I am able to sleep with a lot of women but only because they approach me. I have no game whatsoever. What should I do?it’s definitely a problem. It’s a feeling of a lack of control over one’s outcome. | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Seduction is easier than people thinkin some cases, yes. | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 02:43 AM |
| 1 | An awful lot of theory is stopping you from learning the actually valuable skills of attracting women.kino is absolutely important. It could actually be the thing that MAKES the girl attracted to you girls get easily turned on by touch | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 11:06 PM |
| 11 | if a girl shuts down all ur kino advances does that just mean she doesn’t find you physically attractive enough?been guilty of this before. Had an easy layup and somehow still fucked it up. | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 05:35 AM |
| 12 | What to do if you’re young and matured fast? All the girls my age seem so immature. How to find wifey material?I will try. Thanks | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 09:50 PM |
| 28 | What to do if you’re young and matured fast? All the girls my age seem so immature. How to find wifey material?super helpful comment. I will definitely try to prioritize your suggestions! | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 09:48 PM |
| 2 | What to do if you’re young and matured fast? All the girls my age seem so immature. How to find wifey material?I’m curious what made you say this. cause not doing drugs and partying means a bore? I don’t think so. There’s much more to life that I’m interested in | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 09:37 PM |
| -63 | What to do if you’re young and matured fast? All the girls my age seem so immature. How to find wifey material?prolly. I prefer nerdy girls. But I’m mostly around party tiktok type of girls. So that affects my perception | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 09:23 PM |
| 2 | What to do if you’re young and matured fast? All the girls my age seem so immature. How to find wifey material?because you make some inaccurate assumptions. Saying that I focus on “how much better I am than my peers”. Which is not true. I just told you why it’s not. Saying I’m not mature for my age. When I’m pretty sure that paying for my own school, focusing on my career, focusing on family, etc is pretty mature… Even if I’m wrong, it doesn’t mean you’re right. | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 09:20 PM |
| -14 | What to do if you’re young and matured fast? All the girls my age seem so immature. How to find wifey material?once again, I never said that…. I said TRYING to analyze something objectively. key word ‘TRYING’. Which means that I might be wrong | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 09:15 PM |
| -28 | What to do if you’re young and matured fast? All the girls my age seem so immature. How to find wifey material?trying to analyze something objectively is not the same as judgment. Your doctor may call you overweight but does that mean he’s judging you? No. | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 09:11 PM |
| -53 | What to do if you’re young and matured fast? All the girls my age seem so immature. How to find wifey material?you would def say I’m mature for my age. Just the way I think about things in general. And I never said I like to talk about deep conversations on how I’m better than others. What??? I’m trying to analyze my situation. I’m not judging. | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Guys iam absolute loser and i need your adviceyea bro. I thought you were the dude on the left lol | /r/seduction | 14/10/22 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Second date - initially goes well but at the club she gets drunk as hell and starts grinding on other dudesyou had the appropriate responses. good job g | /r/seduction | 14/10/22 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Attraction is inherently a shallow and predictable process. Stop thinking otherwise(long post)why funny | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 03:57 PM |
| 3 | A Girl i've been Hooking up with Offered me Head and i'm a bit Scaredshe might if it hooks her | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 01:49 AM |
| 3 | For some reason rejection feels like a real torture for medo it again and again until you laugh | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Nature reminds us of our reality. (rant)thanks for showing everyone that you are incapable of thinking. It’s people exactly like you. You probably feel like you’re the bigger guy or morally superior But you’re just a drone | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Nature reminds us of our reality. (rant)it’s people like you tbh. You’re saying that nobody is attracted to 17 year olds?? But all of a sudden it’s okay to be attracted to a girl whose 18 because she’s no longer a “minor”. 365 day difference Really dude?? What if I started a country and said “anyone under 25 years old is a minor.” And then the entire society started shaming people if they publicly admitting to being attracted to a 24 year old. You realize that all these are arbitrary terms right. If you can’t see this, then you can’t … | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Weird ass question, but why don’t women like to be treated like objects?what does that even mean. And why does it matter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 10:38 PM |
| 15 | Weird ass question, but why don’t women like to be treated like objects?THIS is the answer I was looking for. Explaining the psychology of why people don’t like to be treated as objects thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 10:30 AM |
| -1 | Weird ass question, but why don’t women like to be treated like objects?there’s a lot of assumptions built into your comment about what an object is I thought that most agree that treating a chick like an object means viewing her only for sex So based on this definition why is that a bad thing?? Girls know all most dudes want it sex anyways. So why not get right to the point and do the deed if they’re horny too?? This is what humans would do if we were 100% logical But this isn’t realistic, because there’s a human element to it…. I’m trying to figure out what exactl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 10:18 AM |
| 3 | Weird ass question, but why don’t women like to be treated like objects?yes. what’s your answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Being rude to the chick doesn’t make you a “bad boy”. It makes you an asshole(in a bad way).exactly. You’re being playful. Not having a rude or bitter tone. You can say the rudest thing as long as your tone is good, and it’ll be fun | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Being rude to the chick doesn’t make you a “bad boy”. It makes you an asshole(in a bad way).interesting | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Being rude to the chick doesn’t make you a “bad boy”. It makes you an asshole(in a bad way).bad boy: listen to her giving 100% full attention, look her in her eyes and smile like you love her, be interested in her as a person(ask questions and shit), tell her secrets, etc. but never compromise your standards for her. You’re always your own individual simp: compromise your standards for her. Let her walk right over you | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 05:11 PM |
| 10 | I'm using my dog to hook up with girls🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Shower thought: A man’s ‘status’ deceives a woman into thinking she loves him, the same way a woman’s ‘beauty’ deceives a man into believing he loves her.what?? | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 10:32 PM |
| 1 | My theory on attracting a woman at the gymnot a useful theory | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 10:31 PM |
| -3 | Shower thought: A man’s ‘status’ deceives a woman into thinking she loves him, the same way a woman’s ‘beauty’ deceives a man into believing he loves her.no that’s not what happened. It seems like you are so far moved from reality that you’ve never had anyone disagree with you | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 07:14 AM |
| 3 | Shower thought: A man’s ‘status’ deceives a woman into thinking she loves him, the same way a woman’s ‘beauty’ deceives a man into believing he loves her.wtf??? 🤣🤣 projecting much?? | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 05:35 AM |
| 2 | Shower thought: A man’s ‘status’ deceives a woman into thinking she loves him, the same way a woman’s ‘beauty’ deceives a man into believing he loves her.did I ever say there weren’t? | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Shower thought: A man’s ‘status’ deceives a woman into thinking she loves him, the same way a woman’s ‘beauty’ deceives a man into believing he loves her.how? | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high valuePossible. That’s why the asshole strategy may work if she thinks she’s superior to you Be an asshole until she knows you’re at least equal in value. And then when that happens, tune it down a bit | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 07:58 PM |
| 2 | “A man’s attractiveness is inversely proportional to his level of neediness”Stupid quote. You ever met those nerds that genuinely don’t give a fuck about the opposite sex??? Just their books?? Or about those men who are authentically antisocial and all they want to do is watch anime and play video games??? Yea, they’re not needy. They got all they want. But they’re still not attractive…. | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 11:25 PM |
| 1 | This shit easier than I thoughtyes | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Why act like you want a relationship, spend $, get to know someone to ghost after sex?would he have gotten in your pants if he treated you like an object?? maybe he was just into the chase. Sex made him feel like he “got you” | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 09:52 PM |
| 0 | Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high valuethat’s part of it. If you can’t be vulnerable around the girls, then she’s another hoe not your queen. These hoes only want the image | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 09:09 PM |
| 6 | Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high valueyes my thoughts are all over the place. But they’re all related. Just wrote down my stream of consciousness | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 08:20 AM |
| 0 | Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high valuewhat I had in mind for ‘treating her like a queen’ is with a lot of respect. You’re eachothers ride and dies. All the other girls might be tempting, but your queen has your heart. So you desire her a lot. This may manifest in perceived “needy” romantic gestures. but it’s fine, cause she’s equally obsessed with you. So she might do some “needy” things to You also look after for her. Genuinely want the best. You protect her from others. If others talk mad shit, you defend her. You can be vulnerabl… | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high valuepretty sure all HUMANS are the same | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 04:26 AM |
| 3 | Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high valuelike what??? receiving non toxic type of love?? 🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 04:20 AM |
| -1 | Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high valuewhatever makes you feel better 🤷♂️🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 04:13 AM |
| -7 | Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high valueyes you are a peasant | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high valuesources?? or pseudo? | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 04:05 AM |
| -11 | Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high valuegreat seduction advice 🤦♂️🤦♂️ | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Fun Fact: There is nothing more effective in seduction than making the seduced think that they are the ones doing the seducing.yes | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 08:07 AM |
| 4 | How do you get over women that reject you?lose your ego. Meet other women | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Why should I self improve is many guys who don't seem to add any value to a woman's life, still able to attract women.“don’t care about them” isn’t what attracts them. Women love to be feel special by a high value dude. It’s just you have to make them feel special, but not at the expense of yourself | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Why should I self improve is many guys who don't seem to add any value to a woman's life, still able to attract women.this | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Shower thought: How would you try and seduce your homeboys??? | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Shower thought: How would you try and seduce your homeboys??yea. It’s easy to say this shit around guys. Even if you just meet them. Cause you know you could never be a creep. Cause you actually don’t have any sexual interest towards them. And if they interpreted you as a creep, then they have the problem. The issue is that with girls, you DO have sexual interest and suddenly may be afraid of sexualizing because you will feel like a creep. This is cause of modern times society is calling every dude automatically creepy even for approaching girls, and bei… | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Remember when you were little and tried to impress girls with how fast and strong you were??ego isn’t necessarily confidence. there’s many people with fragile egos. Saying they’re the best and all but deep down not believing it, so it’s compensation The solution for each issue is the all so common advice, be comfortable with authentically expressing yourself | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Remember when you were little and tried to impress girls with how fast and strong you were??exactly. if you haven’t put it in check, your ego has prolly evolved into what I said above. recognize it for what it is | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 08:25 PM |
| 4 | Remember when you were little and tried to impress girls with how fast and strong you were??not because of how fast or strong they are. But because of the social status that comes with being an athlete or a “winner”. And it’s also an attractive stereotype that modern-day girls have been conditioned to love Social status is always attractive. But we’re talking about 2 different things | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Remember when you were little and tried to impress girls with how fast and strong you were??you missed my point | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | going deep not wideagree 100% | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 07:52 AM |
| 2 | I was in a nightclub lastNight and tried out a more direct approach with womenhahaha | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 02:37 AM |
| 1 | What’s the difference between ‘telling the girl what she wants to hear’ vs being a “nice guy”?yes they are. Everybody presents their best selves but not their real selves. You ain’t gonna know that cute sweet chick is pyscho until you spend much longer time with her | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 07:56 PM |
| 2 | What’s the difference between ‘telling the girl what she wants to hear’ vs being a “nice guy”?who cares??? First dates are inherently manipulative. | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 07:54 PM |
| 2 | What’s the difference between ‘telling the girl what she wants to hear’ vs being a “nice guy”?so psychopaths are “nice guys”??? | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Toxic advice in the book "models"it’s hard to know difference between persistence and creepy | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 05:40 PM |
| 2 | What are some books that can help me with holding a conversation with any strangerwatching people interact irl | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 08:33 AM |
| 1 | What’s the difference between ‘telling the girl what she wants to hear’ vs being a “nice guy”?dgaf tbh | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 07:40 AM |
| -2 | What’s the difference between ‘telling the girl what she wants to hear’ vs being a “nice guy”?what if I just want a hookup?? | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 05:13 AM |
| 2 | What’s the difference between ‘telling the girl what she wants to hear’ vs being a “nice guy”?got it. Thanks Also, how effective of a strategy do you think telling them what they want to hear is??? and on what issues is it better to disagree on? Like if you’re just meeting a person, and she’s hard leaning left politically. You might not want to mention that you’re hard leaning right (especially if you just want to hookup with her) | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 05:11 AM |
| -3 | What’s the difference between ‘telling the girl what she wants to hear’ vs being a “nice guy”?I’d only use this strategy for hookups tbh | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 03:47 AM |
| -10 | What’s the difference between ‘telling the girl what she wants to hear’ vs being a “nice guy”?dude. Shit like this happens you’re trying to tell me it doesn’t?? | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 03:14 AM |
| 2 | What’s the difference between ‘telling the girl what she wants to hear’ vs being a “nice guy”?I’ve heard of stories where the man has told the girl what she wants to hear and it works many times Like especially if she’s religious. | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Seduction methods doesn't work herefr | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.gg | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 07:46 PM |
| 0 | Girls are so comfortable and easily open up to guys with gay energy. And some girls are scared or cautious around guys with masculine energy. Is this true?I said MOST you dummy sad🤦♂️🤦♂️ | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Was Giacomo Casanova a masculine or dominant man?true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Was Giacomo Casanova a masculine or dominant man?he was both. And this still doesn’t answer my question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Girls are so comfortable and easily open up to guys with gay energy. And some girls are scared or cautious around guys with masculine energy. Is this true?I wonder why. how was your father growing up? | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Was Giacomo Casanova a masculine or dominant man?yes??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 05:25 AM |
| 3 | If you're dating a girl you're not that into, but you can't find someone better, what do you do?instructions unclear: fucked her in ass | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 04:36 AM |
| 1 | My Seduction Affirmationswtf is this 😭😭 | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Girls are so comfortable and easily open up to guys with gay energy. And some girls are scared or cautious around guys with masculine energy. Is this true?fr. I definitely overthink this shit sometimes I’ve tried to recreate everything about myself head to toe | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Girls are so comfortable and easily open up to guys with gay energy. And some girls are scared or cautious around guys with masculine energy. Is this true?interesting… I will definitely consider this cause tbh yea some sarcastic people annoy tf outta me. But some I really love I think it’s just about the delivery… like one type of girl I like is sarcastic feminine chicks. But at the same time, I hate people who are sarcastic and deadpan asf. So you never knew if they were even joking. And you just feel dumb cause you don’t know | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Girls are so comfortable and easily open up to guys with gay energy. And some girls are scared or cautious around guys with masculine energy. Is this true?yea prolly overthinking. I’m analyzing a personal experience to see if it has some bigger truth behind it | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 02:24 AM |
| 0 | Girls are so comfortable and easily open up to guys with gay energy. And some girls are scared or cautious around guys with masculine energy. Is this true?you right. And you made me think of something I never thought of before like we all know most girls want to be dominanted in bed. Fact But this doesn’t necessarily mean that they want that same dominant energy transfered to normal day-to-day life from their man. interesting… | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Girls are so comfortable and easily open up to guys with gay energy. And some girls are scared or cautious around guys with masculine energy. Is this true?I agree that I prolly should be in touch with my emotions more. Especially my anxiety cause I hate that shit But I was talking more so about how the dude talks gay, is super agreeable, and has semi gay body language I’m not really focusing on “feminine” hobbies. Cause I have alot of those too But more about his feminine energy. And I’m confused as to if these girls prolly like him or just see him as a friend Cause you’d prolly take a step back and wonder if he was gay too. But his gay energy is … | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 02:11 AM |
| 0 | Girls are so comfortable and easily open up to guys with gay energy. And some girls are scared or cautious around guys with masculine energy. Is this true?lol. dating apps are different. Every dude on there is 100% trying to get laid ASAP | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Girls are so comfortable and easily open up to guys with gay energy. And some girls are scared or cautious around guys with masculine energy. Is this true?yea I might be too stern. Idk how to really change that tho. I have a resting bitch face and walk around like a king. And talk with conviction But once you get to know me, they’d see that I don’t take myself too seriously. But still demand respect How to know if I’m too stern? | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 02:04 AM |
| -3 | Girls are so comfortable and easily open up to guys with gay energy. And some girls are scared or cautious around guys with masculine energy. Is this true?fr. I definitely have masculine and feminine energy once you get to know me but initially, it’s always masculine. And sometimes I feel like I already scared these chicks away but once you get to know me more, chicks be like “you’re secretly soft” and love me more | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Girls are so comfortable and easily open up to guys with gay energy. And some girls are scared or cautious around guys with masculine energy. Is this true?how to be more trustworthy?? And hmm, on being judgmental…. Being witty and making sarcastic remarks is my strong suit. Of course I don’t always do this, but I make sure to include it how can I not be judgmental if I’m a sarcastic person?? | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Girls are so comfortable and easily open up to guys with gay energy. And some girls are scared or cautious around guys with masculine energy. Is this true?I wouldn’t think so. I think it’d be more to do with they’d feel guilty if they approached a dude like me knowing they have boyfriends | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Girls are so comfortable and easily open up to guys with gay energy. And some girls are scared or cautious around guys with masculine energy. Is this true?I’m more so talking about how he talks like a chick with his tonality, is super agreeable, is always smiling, never disagrees | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 01:17 AM |
| -4 | Girls are so comfortable and easily open up to guys with gay energy. And some girls are scared or cautious around guys with masculine energy. Is this true?but this dude is totally gay energy. Doesn’t have any masculine energy about him | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Girls are so comfortable and easily open up to guys with gay energy. And some girls are scared or cautious around guys with masculine energy. Is this true?“now hurry up dumbass” 🤓🤓 | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 01:05 AM |
| -1 | Girls are so comfortable and easily open up to guys with gay energy. And some girls are scared or cautious around guys with masculine energy. Is this true?shut up bitch | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Girls are so comfortable and easily open up to guys with gay energy. And some girls are scared or cautious around guys with masculine energy. Is this true?you forgot your name homie 😭😭 | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 01:00 AM |
| 4 | Girls are so comfortable and easily open up to guys with gay energy. And some girls are scared or cautious around guys with masculine energy. Is this true?bruh what | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 12:52 AM |
| 1 | It's not that 'nice guys' finish last, it's men who only act nice as a result of them being too weak to stand up for themselves or their beliefs that will lack success.EXACTLY. whenever someone says, “it takes more power to hold back and NOT hit someone” I’m like, “only if you’re not pussy to actually hit the person if it came down to it.” Holding back is only virtuous if you’re holding back the monster inside. Like imagine Mike Tyson holding back vs that guy who’s all talk | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 11:39 PM |
| 1 | In a world where most are bound by rules and restrictions, there is nothing more attractive than a person who retains the ability to act freely with unapologetic authenticity.authenticity is magnetic for sure. Prolly just as important (if not more) as masculine energy | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Want to make approaching a little bit easier? Assume she’s lonely and depressed.kinda a similar selfless mindset. | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 06:08 AM |
| 2 | Want to make approaching a little bit easier? Assume she’s lonely and depressed.firstworldproblems | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 06:06 AM |
| 1 | By far the weirdest cold approach experience I’ve ever hadthis shit feels spiritual. wish I had that shit | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 05:37 AM |
| 3 | Want to make approaching a little bit easier? Assume she’s lonely and depressed.wtf??? | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 05:08 PM |
| 4 | Question: How to know whether you’re giving up too early or walking away with your self-respect intact?no man. you’re saying you rather lower your effectiveness and just rely on the numbers game? you know if a girl shows high interest from the start, chances are it’ll be that easy to lose her. You’re also potentially getting lower quality women I rather have a more effective strategy. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 09:27 AM |
| 3 | Question: How to know whether you’re giving up too early or walking away with your self-respect intact?show intent. But not too much. Uncertainty creates attraction If you’re too bold from the beginning you’re effectiveness will decrease plAy the game | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 09:22 AM |
| 5 | Question: How to know whether you’re giving up too early or walking away with your self-respect intact?nah man. Being too direct ain’t the way when you just meet a girl | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Day game or cold approaching is advanced shit. Stop killing your self and go game at a dive bar.I agree with Rule 1 and 2. But only if “be attractive” includes more than physical attractiveness | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 08:42 PM |
| 6 | Day game or cold approaching is advanced shit. Stop killing your self and go game at a dive bar.this sub is hilarious. Every single day there’s a popular post that directly contradicts another Every day No wonder why you all are so confused | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 08:14 PM |
| 3 | The goal of self-development should be you finding yourself attractiveit fucking sucks doesn’t it but I think it’s cause we gotta learn to be more grounded | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 07:17 AM |
| 8 | I just realised how shit I am at this.this x1000 losers are to afraid to fail, so they don’t take action. Or quit winners fail so many times, and learn, then get better be happy at your first baby steps | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 01:16 AM |
| 1 | The goal of self-development should be you finding yourself attractiveyour brain needs evidence to believe. so find out what type of evidence you need, and then search for it the more pieces of evidence you grab. The stronger the belief will come you’re brain ain’t stupid. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 12:56 AM |
| 2 | The goal of self-development should be you finding yourself attractivewhat evidence would make you say, “damn. I’m the man.” And then do that | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 10:10 PM |
| 5 | The goal of self-development should be you finding yourself attractiveit’s not necessarily about seeing yourself as physically attractive. But as an attractive man | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 04:59 PM |
| 5 | The goal of self-development should be you finding yourself attractivewhat didn’t you understand? | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 04:59 PM |
| -7 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?unfortunately I’m not attracted to them | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 05:11 AM |
| 1 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?lol | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 05:10 AM |
| -10 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?personally, I don’t want sluts not trynna get an std and I don’t like it when it’s too easy | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 05:07 AM |
| 4 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?gtfo 🤦♂️🤦♂️ “learning game” is exactly what I’m trying to do | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 05:02 AM |
| 14 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?nah man. It’s more effective with the connection. She needs to trust and be comfortable with you | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 03:13 AM |
| 10 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?np. these people are idiots | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:59 AM |
| 12 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?sigh… some reason you keep assuming that since I want to know the mechanics behind the process of creating emotional attraction it makes my interest fake 🤦♂️🤦♂️ I will say this the last time, what if I’m just trying to learn how to optimize my approach and be the most effective lover that I’m capable of becoming?? that’s literally what this sub is for…. Some reason you can’t piece together those two things and I’m not asking for a super super specific step-by-step guide. Because that doesn’t e… | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:53 AM |
| 9 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?yes I did said that. you’re point? I literally just explained my thought process in the comment above 🤦♂️🤦♂️ | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:46 AM |
| 11 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?I never asked how to fake an emotional attachment. I asked about the process to create an emotional attraction For some reason you’re assuming that since I want to know the mechanics behind social interaction. It makes me a manipulator. Some people just like to know the mechanics behind it all, so they can learn how to be the most effective. Or just for curiosity sakes | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:43 AM |
| 10 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?are you implying that I don’t enjoy being around them? and sure, I agree that this advice is a part of the process. But it’s a very elementary and incomplete perspective | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:39 AM |
| 14 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?you sure made a lot of assumptions there when did I ever say or imply that I don’t view women as people? and you also didn’t tell me how I’m wrong. because you can’t | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:35 AM |
| 26 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?you’re on r/seduction, which by definition means you to some extent subscribe to the idea that there is a fairly consistent process or pattern to getting girls and now when I ask what’s the general process to create emotional attraction, y’all are like, “you can’t manipulate this.” 🤡🤡 if there’s a fairly consistent process to anything(and I know there is), then it can be manipulated….. But that’s besides the point, who said that I was going to manipulate them? what if I just want to be the best … | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:32 AM |
| 0 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?I’m not a nice guy and you’re not that smart if you don’t think that there’s a general process to this. sorry if it hurts your ego, but you’re just another human. And humans behave fairly consistently | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:24 AM |
| -11 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?sure you can. and at the very least there’s a general step-by-step process what’s that process? | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:16 AM |
| 3 | Small specific rant: I see y’all sometimes stressing, “omg I embarrassed myself falling in front of that girl”yes. anything else is cringe | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:00 AM |
| 2 | I give upof course you don’t get no girls. You’re a quitter and all though they might’ve directly never seen this It bleds through… | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 01:50 AM |
| 6 | How can I get better at building tension through text? Finish this convo examplelove it. Idk why but accusing the girl of being the pursuer is pretty effective anyone have a social psychology explanation? | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 01:47 AM |
| 1 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?how to add the emotional component | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 01:44 AM |
| 2 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?how to make em emotionally attracted | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 01:43 AM |
| 130 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?yea it lowers your effectiveness. however, if you play the numbers you may get what you want but then it’s prolly not a high quality women anyways So just learn to play the game | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 01:43 AM |
| 1 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?wym by open | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 01:41 AM |
| 24 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?this. what’s the best way for a man to make you emotionally attracted? | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 01:40 AM |
| 2 | In Mark Manson's "Models" he explains one way to attract the women you want is to become a leader in your interests/demographic. Who here has done something along those lines?fr | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Don’t stress about the perfect opener. If she’s chill or has any decent social skills at all, then it doesn’t matter.opener doesn’t matter. But of course steer the convo to more of an emotional direction | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Lost my virginity last night, here's some takeaways / after-thoughtsgood advice | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Lost my virginity last night, here's some takeaways / after-thoughtswym you focused on positive reinforcement?? | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 08:04 PM |
| 51 | it really isn't difficult.you right. Never underestimate how lonely people are nowadays. Everyone’s lonely irl cause of all this individualism, queen and king shit, and we live in the digital world Women want irl attention | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 07:05 AM |
| 2 | 30 year old delivering pizzas on side. 40s sexy cougar seems to like me^ | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 06:38 AM |
| 4 | 30 year old delivering pizzas on side. 40s sexy cougar seems to like me^ | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 06:37 AM |
| 7 | Don’t stress about the perfect opener. If she’s chill or has any decent social skills at all, then it doesn’t matter.big ass I need fuk | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 03:36 AM |
| 8 | Don’t stress about the perfect opener. If she’s chill or has any decent social skills at all, then it doesn’t matter.the halo effect | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 05:00 PM |
| 1 | i made my first approach in weeks🤦♂️🤦♂️ | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 08:06 AM |
| 7 | Questionjust give em attention tbh. And make em feel young and desirable | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 08:05 AM |
| 1 | What does confidence mean to you?I wasn’t talking about you. I used ‘you’ indirectly to apply to any human | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 12:19 AM |
| 0 | What does confidence mean to you?you’re prolly not comfortable with who you are cause there’s some distance between where you currently are and where you want to be Each person has to personally find what their ideal self encompasses. And what they’re currently doing If it’s just getting more money, then focus on that. (I doubt it) If it’s being comfortable in your own skin. Then focus on that. But what exactly does that mean? there’s no direct action step associated with “being comfortable in your own skin”. So once again, ana… | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 12:13 AM |
| 5 | What does confidence mean to you?if it was that easy, we’d all be confident | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 03:49 AM |
| 111 | What does confidence mean to you?if you lack confidence, then that shouldn’t be the focus. Bravery should. Do everything that makes you nervous and afraid(systematically go up) And do it repeatedly. And then once you’ve done that, confidence should be a byproduct of your bravery Confidence shouldn’t be prioritized because it’s a feeling. You can’t control your feelings but bravery is, “taking action despite fear” which is something you can do right now and whenever | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 04:31 PM |
| -11 | What does confidence mean to you?No | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Should I let my date know if she has an eye booger or not?Got it. That’s why I think I wanted to do it on an intuitive level. To solidify the dynamic of me being the leader. And also because I care for her. I want our dynamic for her to think of me as daddy. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Should I let my date know if she has an eye booger or not?interesting that you say dominance. How do you think it shows that? | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 06:39 AM |
| 51 | Guys, I think fucked up...expect anxiety. Expect them seeing your anxiety. Be okay with that reality. Then feel the pain and do it anyways It’s supposed to hurt. You haven’t don’t this before And repeat repeat repeat Until you laugh and be like “tf was I scared about?” | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Do women who smile at you want you to approach them?idk. why don’t you go find out? | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 05:24 AM |
| 1 | What's the truth on older women (not cougars), and how to tell what they want?this is why the “don’t listen to women” advice is BS older women are WOMEN | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Should I let my date know if she has an eye booger or not?you wouldn’t feel like it ruined the night? Or lose attraction? | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Should I refrain from mentioning I go to therapy to a girl.but what if she’s also in therapy? You’d connect even more | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 11:43 PM |
| 0 | Unethical ways of seductionI don’t think you’ve talked to many 10/10. A lot of them are very insecure | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 05:56 AM |
| 1 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?then they ain’t playing it right. You gotta be more subtle than that | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 05:40 AM |
| 1 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?fucking 96. fucked ur mom and grandma with this technique | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 05:30 AM |
| 1 | you're not a nice guy.I think it’s better to show not tell. Right?? Like imagine someone telling you that you’re their crush vs making you feel like you are | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 04:55 AM |
| 49 | Aproaching guys during collegenah ignore all this advice. Don’t just ask if they wanna hangout before you talk. They might think it’s a social experiment and it’s best for your safety first try to vibe with the guy and see if there’s a connection. If there is one, then you can ask him | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 03:20 AM |
| 66 | Aproaching guys during collegeunless he’s awkward asf | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 03:19 AM |
| 1 | you're not a nice guy.tell her she’s attractive or show it through my body language?? | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 03:18 AM |
| 0 | you're not a nice guy.this is where I’m confused Hot chicks have to know that all guys wanna fuck them So what’s the balance between the extreme “nice guy” friend who “doesn’t want to sleep with her” vs being the dude who says blantatly that he wants to fuck her (coming on too strong. Seems all about sex) | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | you're not a nice guy.wym by women are good at noticing guys who want to sleep with them you mean like every dude??? | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 11:08 PM |
| 1 | What's the seddit consensus on mirroring?I’d love to talk to you more about this | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Unethical ways of seductionhmmm interesting. However I find that if I degrade her self-image she no longer wants to be around me. Thinks I’m an asshole. Because people like others who make them feel good about themselves. Don’t you think it’s more effective to up build her self-image?? And make her realize her full potential? | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 07:11 PM |
| 1 | ways to approach a female classmate in college.pretend she’s a guy | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 07:05 PM |
| 2 | ways to approach a female classmate in college.ehhh. I think using a compliment as a conversation opener is weak. Unless she was dressed super exotic | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Unethical ways of seductionmaybe. But only if she doesn’t have better options than you | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Unethical ways of seductionany stage where she has enough of an emotional investment to put up with your shit It’s up to you to figure it out with the individual women An extreme example is let’s say you’re a celeb and a fan is obsessed with you. You could prolly get away with treating her like shit pretty early on, because she is already obsessed(deep emotional investment). And she’s scared of losing you But this only works on very insecure women who feel like they don’t have better options than you. Any high quality or … | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Unethical ways of seductionthese things only work if you’re in the talking stage or a relationship. Other than that, the person doesn’t have enough of an emotional investment to gaf Unless you’re the only person in the world you has ever given them attention | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Unethical ways of seductionlmao | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Attractiveness Equationidk just be fun, build an emotional connection with the girl so she trusts you, and flirt…. until you get some | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 07:43 AM |
| 2 | Your personality should be polarizingdeciding to screen a person before telling them your most controversial opinions depends on your objective in the social interaction sometimes introducing that level of vulnerability allows the other person to open up and they’ll love you even more if they share the same views | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 07:38 AM |
| -1 | Your personality should be polarizingbeing polarizing is being genuine. Just look at kids. They voice their opinions and dgaf. Then as we get older and more socialized, we slowly become a tool because our authenticity was bred out of us at varying degrees It’s up to you if you want to reconnect with that authenticity. Or maybe you were just a super polite kid. But that doesn’t change the fact that polarizing personalities are attractive | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 07:25 AM |
| -4 | What made you fall in love?men love kind and submissive women that give them respect. And to add on to that list personally, I like girls who are open-minded, not easily offended, self aware, conservative but wild, not high maintenance, like to break the rules, she lets me lead | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 04:45 PM |
| 1 | How to say you're only looking for sex?stay mad | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 07:53 AM |
| -3 | How to say you're only looking for sex?yes | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 06:08 AM |
| 1 | How to say you're only looking for sex?but wouldn’t she want to fuck her boyfriend?? | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 05:35 AM |
| 0 | How to say you're only looking for sex?wym don’t act like a boyfriend. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 03:11 AM |
| 1 | How to say you're only looking for sex?I like to keep things “open” | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 03:10 AM |
| 0 | Found myself with better-quality women after prioritizing honesty over getting laid.so you don’t use plausible deniability??? And how do the women react when you say you plan to get laid the same day | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Hooking Up On Vacation Advicehow’d you manage to go on a trip with randoms? | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 11:31 PM |
| 3 | How to say you're only looking for sex?you’re suggesting him to be honest as upfront with just wanting to fuck her??? won’t that decrease his chances of getting it | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 11:09 PM |
| 2 | How to say you're only looking for sex?I have the same question OP | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 11:08 PM |
| 0 | How to say you're only looking for sex?wym by act like a boyfriend | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 11:07 PM |
| 0 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?so I got the push down, how should I pull? I usually interpret pull as: I was the one who initiated convo, I look at her like she’s the only girl in the world, and sometimes compliment her(but not really. Got to work on this), comforting her | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 10:39 PM |
| 2 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?I’ll check it out | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 10:28 PM |
| 1 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?even option 3?? | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 10:10 PM |
| 0 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?what suggestions about women did I shoot down?? None. now if you’re talking about me rejecting your “people aren’t machines” statement in regards to that people aren’t predictable. I did that because you’re wrong in a metaphorical sense. People in general are predictable. If you behave in certain ways, they will react in certain ways. This is a fact. So we just need to find which strategies work more than others. And yes, that applies to women as well | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 10:04 PM |
| 1 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?no. This is how you play the game | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 10:00 PM |
| 0 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?I’m giving you the floor. And you instantly shy away when someone is trying to understand what you’re saying. But doesn’t immediately accept it I don’t think you’re as mature as you think you are | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 08:15 PM |
| -3 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?I listen if someone knows what they’re talking about | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 08:12 PM |
| 1 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?anybody can do that. What sets apart a man you’ll put in the friend zone from one you want to date? Do they take the lead? Do they flirt/have a sexual aura? | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 08:11 PM |
| 0 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?my ears are open | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 08:09 PM |
| 1 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?so then what do you think works on you? | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 08:08 PM |
| 0 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?if definitely would. But like I said, not an extreme form. It’d prolly be more subtle | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 07:54 PM |
| -3 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?who said I wouldn’t adjust accordingly to the individual woman?? And yes, humans are like machines. They’re generally predictable. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 07:52 PM |
| 0 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?then you don’t understand humans. Push-pull works on everybody | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 07:17 PM |
| 0 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?everything’s manipulation then. Looking into her eyes? Cause you’re trynna make her feel special Touching her? To stimulate sexual feelings Etc etc Who cares if it’s manipulation. Everything is | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 07:05 PM |
| 1 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?no. All people fall for this shit. You’re just probably thinking of an extreme version of push-pull. It’s not black and white. It’s on a spectrum. And whenever someone likes another, they prolly manifested push-pull to some extent | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 07:02 PM |
| 2 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?yes I push-pull by guy friends. Within the framework of push-pull, calling them out is considered “pull” The whole point is to not be a needy bitch around her and accept everything she says. But also to maintain a perception of high value. Pull helps us maintain that perception | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 06:58 PM |
| 2 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way??? | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 06:54 PM |
| 2 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?I’m the type of person who likes to understand the underlying mechanics of everything. Since there is a consistent pattern to socializing, it means it can be studied in terms of which techniques, etc are most effective. It’s like statistics Although you’re right that most successful men don’t put thought into this. I believe that the men who actually do, have the potential to be the best lovers. Knowing how to satisfy their women. (Emotionally, sexually, spiritually.) And experiencing life + get… | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 06:42 PM |
| 1 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?you actually know what you’re talking about. Thanks and I can see how Reward/Reward/Reward in one interaction and then Absence/Absence/Absence is probably not optimal when you’re getting to know them. They don’t have that deep enough of an emotional connection to care So might as well mix Reward/Absence/Reward/Absence to stimulate interest and their emotions more And then when she’s my long-term partner, if I ghosted her(I wouldn’t do. It’s just for testing the absolute limits of the theory) whi… | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 06:34 PM |
| 0 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?a real confident man naturally implements push-and-pull because an abundant mindset makes it easier might as well learn the mechanics behind it And needy guys with no options should learn the mechanics behind it. Or they’ll be desperate af around the girl | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 06:15 PM |
| 3 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?I really don’t understand most of you guys. Push-and-pull works. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 06:14 PM |
| 0 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?I’m not applying ‘pull’ by insulting the girl or anything. I’m just flirting with her less, giving less attention, teasing her, etc and push-and-pull should primarily be used in the initial stages of a relationship. Where you don’t really know the person. Of course when you get to know the person and they fall in love with you. Push-and-pull is needed less. But I would argue to keep attraction we always need an element of push. It’s what shows high value | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 06:12 PM |
| 1 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?ahh, these were the words I was looking for. Micro and macro. So in the macro you would never just do Reward/Reward/Reward in one interaction. And then Absence/ Absence/Absence in another interaction?? This was my point 1 and 2 ^ Cause technically this is also being hot and cold | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 06:08 PM |
| 1 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?push-and-pull isn’t being fake. It’s knowing how to stimulate their emotions. And if you’re looking for a life partner, then MAYBE don’t use this strategy. But most of us here are just trying to get laid. And push-and-pull definitely works | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 06:05 PM |
| -1 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?push-and-pull is a part of fundamentals You give too much pull: she thinks you come on too strong, are desperate, you’re easy, and you push her away You apply to much push: she thinks you’re an asshole. The pull is necessary to show interest. And the push is to show that we’re still not easy to get. Psychology says that people get deeper feelings when they don’t know if the other person likes them. Humans hate uncertainty | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 05:47 PM |
| 1 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?so you do it ‘based on which interaction it is’. Rather than giving her both reward and absence in each interaction Correct? | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Sweet words... work? Treating her like she is already yours?Because I want to fuck her. She’s hot. Idc if she has a bad personality, I’m just trynna fuck Genuine question, you think a compliment about their shirt shows romantic interest?? | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 08:34 AM |
| -4 | “I bet that you can’t fuck that girl.”it helps me get in the right mindset | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 08:27 AM |
| 0 | “I bet that you can’t fuck that girl.”lol | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 08:27 AM |
| -6 | “I bet that you can’t fuck that girl.”?? | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Sweet words... work? Treating her like she is already yours?how to show romantic interest without directly saying it | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Girls grind on me on the clubthat wasn’t a shit test. That was her crossing some boundaries. I would’ve broken up with her ass on the spot | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 06:24 AM |
| 1 | I’m looking for hella specific advice here. How would you have approached this?I think I got to build more rapport for that | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 05:55 AM |
| 0 | Confidence isn’t necessarily attractive. It’s confidence combined with masculine/dominant energy.this is not what I was going for | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Confidence isn’t necessarily attractive. It’s confidence combined with masculine/dominant energy.everything that has a pattern is a science | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Confidence isn’t necessarily attractive. It’s confidence combined with masculine/dominant energy.everything that has a pattern is a science | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 08:09 PM |
| 0 | Confidence isn’t necessarily attractive. It’s confidence combined with masculine/dominant energy.true. And I’m aware that some girls are attracted to the ‘dandy’ archetype. However, these kind of girls are more rare. And prince was a famous musical artist so of course he got bitches. Status = bitches. But in general, the rule is that women are attracted to masculinity. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 08:07 PM |
| 0 | How to bring up sex without seeming trashy?tell her to dm me | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 04:32 AM |
| -1 | How to bring up sex without seeming trashy?glad you agree | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 04:27 AM |
| 3 | Confidence isn’t necessarily attractive. It’s confidence combined with masculine/dominant energy.that doesn’t tell me anything on the scale of feminine to masculine, which do you learn towards more? | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Confidence isn’t necessarily attractive. It’s confidence combined with masculine/dominant energy.are you feminine?? | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 03:14 AM |
| 1 | How to bring up sex without seeming trashy?I’d be down as long as we connected. I have to connect with the girl or I can’t be sexually attracted. No matter how hot she is | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Confidence isn’t necessarily attractive. It’s confidence combined with masculine/dominant energy.fans aren’t sexually attracted to lips actors real personality. Look up the YT comment section of him reading thirst tweets. This means that it is about the way you carry yourself | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Confidence isn’t necessarily attractive. It’s confidence combined with masculine/dominant energy.by “energy” I’m referring to the way one carries themselves. The way they walk, talk, and interact with others. You gotta act like you run shit. You own the place. That’s the dominant/masculine energy that women are attracted to. In reality, you don’t even have to run shit. You just have to come across like that. Like there’s still some bitch boy CEO’s like bezos. Sure he’s in a high status position but have you seen how he interacts with others??? There’s just something about him that doesn’t c… | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Confidence isn’t necessarily attractive. It’s confidence combined with masculine/dominant energy.I still think leadership is too vague of a term. And people don’t know exactly what that practically means or should convey | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 02:41 AM |
| 0 | How to bring up sex without seeming trashy?what I want is very specific actually. I want to find a way to connect deeply with a girl fast, and then fuck her But it’s weird because intimacy makes me nervous. So it’s like am I trying to get sex because I’m horny? Because I want power? Or because I actually want intimacy?? 🤔🤔 | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Confidence isn’t necessarily attractive. It’s confidence combined with masculine/dominant energy.It should be clear why I didn’t state confidence. And I didn’t specify leadership because there’s lots of different leaders. Gandhi was a leader but do you think he would’ve got bitches?? | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 02:31 AM |
| 8 | Confidence isn’t necessarily attractive. It’s confidence combined with masculine/dominant energy.yea I think my advice is geared towards short-term flings if this isn’t the real you because eventually you will be exposed. But you could fake it for some time And I actually believe Casanova thought a similar thing. He focused on listening to a women and making her feel special because he knew he could never be the most dominant male | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 02:28 AM |
| 1 | How to bring up sex without seeming trashy?learn to spell it first | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 02:22 AM |
| 1 | How to bring up sex without seeming trashy?great comment | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 02:22 AM |
| 0 | How to bring up sex without seeming trashy?your wife’s going to be plowed by the whole town | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 02:20 AM |
| 0 | How to bring up sex without seeming trashy?they can have their thoughts. But it’s a turn off when they’re overt with it. And when they randomly mention guys they wanna fuck. It’s like girl I know you might, but can you fucking chill and keep it to yourself? It’s trashy and makes you seem easy | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 02:18 AM |
| 1 | How to bring up sex without seeming trashy?yes | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 02:16 AM |
| -1 | How to bring up sex without seeming trashy?then you clearly don’t talk to chicks | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Beach game?nice thighs | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 10:42 PM |
| 11 | Beach game?it is kinda weird. Don’t do that shit | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Is confidence the key to attracting others?confidence needs dominant energy to be sexually attractive. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 10:39 PM |
| -3 | How to bring up sex without seeming trashy?when they’re talking about celeb crushes and shit | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 07:37 AM |
| 1 | How to bring up sex without seeming trashy???? | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 06:51 AM |
| 2 | What should be my reply when girls tell me on the date that they're screening me?no dude. You come off as a insecure little boy | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 06:41 AM |
| 3 | Okay I’m getting riskier in the dms fuck it’s risky and feels like a risk but maybe it pays offstop being a 🐱 | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 06:39 AM |
| -13 | How to bring up sex without seeming trashy?chicks have said this irl | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 06:02 AM |
| 3 | About “If it’s not hell yes!, then it’s hell no! “ sayingno this isn’t always true. and it’s stupid to think the girl should be “hell yes” when she just met you. it’s more likely that the hoes are “hell yes”. And the loyal girls just take time to warm up. It’s kinda dangerous if she’s “hell yes” at first cause she’ll probably be easily seduced by other men | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Honesty gets you a very long waybut remmeber plausible deniability | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 07:32 AM |
| 1 | what can I do to develop an abundance mindset?by actually having more options. So talk to more girls | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 03:36 PM |
| 2 | How I effortlessly came across as high value to a girl that had previously ghosted meher mom lowkey helped you out | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 03:33 PM |
| 1 | If you never approach, then you might be the greatest lady’s man of all time.ahh. what’s holding you back then? | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 09:24 AM |
| -1 | If you never approach, then you might be the greatest lady’s man of all time.?? | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Cold approached for the first time the other night, here’s what happened.you’re not speaking facts. You’re speaking from cherry picked anecdotal evidence that fits your narrative try a new narrative for a change | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Cold approached for the first time the other night, here’s what happened.why are people like you even on this sub??? if you don’t have a growth mindset then wtf are you doing here??? seriously | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Cold approached for the first time the other night, here’s what happened.++ | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 11:21 PM |
| 5 | Cold approached for the first time the other night, here’s what happened.contrary to the majority, I actually think doing dumb shit like falling over something in your 1st approach is good It’s an immediate attention grabber. She’ll remember it. And you get a chance to brush it off and show that you don’t take yourself too seriously. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 11:19 PM |
| 2 | being ignored during an approachnot really…. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 11:16 PM |
| 23 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)this rarely happens | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 11:12 PM |
| 1 | What are some good plausible deniability ideas (excuses) to bring a girl home?🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 11:10 PM |
| 2 | “Don’t text back if she left you on read” is BS.I say give a week then say something. Doesn’t hurt to try. Don’t cut your losses too early | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 11:04 PM |
| -2 | “Don’t text back if she left you on read” is BS.you described it perfectly. I couldn’t give less of a shit if she texted back but I still sometimes do cause I’m bored and curious to see if I can still get some pussyyyyyyyyy | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 10:04 PM |
| 2 | “Don’t text back if she left you on read” is BS.why not? it’ll help you get confirmation just don’t reach out a 3rd time | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 09:42 PM |
| 1 | “Don’t text back if she left you on read” is BS.maybe your clock is broken | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 09:00 PM |
| 2 | “Don’t text back if she left you on read” is BS.plausible deniability isn’t manipulation. It’s a way for the girl to give into what she wants while saving face. Cause if things go bad she could alway say, “that’s not how I interpreted it.” | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 08:31 PM |
| 0 | “Don’t text back if she left you on read” is BS.then tell me why I got in this bitches pants after 🙈🙈 | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 08:28 PM |
| 2 | “Don’t text back if she left you on read” is BS.if you have a reputation of being a grounded person | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 08:25 PM |
| -2 | “Don’t text back if she left you on read” is BS.my approach is always go over to test the limits. And see exactly where she’s at. Then slowly contract until she gets comfortable to meet me back where I started | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 08:21 PM |
| 38 | “Don’t text back if she left you on read” is BS.obviously us. We’re on a Reddit seduction community | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 06:45 PM |
| 4 | “Don’t text back if she left you on read” is BS.yea. “Don’t double text” is a good general statement for amateurs learning game. So they can learn to not be needy. But when you get advanced, things aren’t so black and white | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 05:54 PM |
| 3 | “Don’t text back if she left you on read” is BS.yes | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 05:50 PM |
| 0 | “Don’t text back if she left you on read” is BS.? | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 05:42 PM |
| 0 | “Don’t text back if she left you on read” is BS.yea this basically. TLDR of my post at the same time, depending on what you said, I wouldn’t always apologize for it Like if you said a dark joke and she got pisses cause her dad died the same way. Apologize But if you’re just being sexual and she’s not there yet. Like telling her how you’d fuck the shit out of her. I wouldn’t apologize. It can seem like you’re ashamed of your sexual desire What do you think? It’s hard do draw the middle line | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 05:20 PM |
| 8 | What are some good plausible deniability ideas (excuses) to bring a girl home?someone just tried to english 🤓 | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 02:53 AM |
| 6 | What are some good plausible deniability ideas (excuses) to bring a girl home?😭😭 | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Thought of the day: She’ll fuck you if you make her feel attractive + have a connection with herfor sure | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Thought of the day: She’ll fuck you if you make her feel attractive + have a connection with herprolly cause they don’t always treat em like shit. And are living off that “good” inside of them | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Thought of the day: She’ll fuck you if you make her feel attractive + have a connection with herI’m aware of all these objective realities of status. However, you’re missing the vital component that the way one conveys themselves shows social status | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Thought of the day: She’ll fuck you if you make her feel attractive + have a connection with herI never said to call them hot. And still, even with girls who know they’re beautiful. A sincere “you’re beautiful” could still make their day they can sense inauthenticity/bad intentions tho | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Thought of the day: She’ll fuck you if you make her feel attractive + have a connection with hersocial status isn’t necessary tied to one’s job. Have a strong presence and be popular within your friend groups | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Thought of the day: She’ll fuck you if you make her feel attractive + have a connection with herconnection builds attraction | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Thought of the day: She’ll fuck you if you make her feel attractive + have a connection with herhow so? | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Thought of the day: She’ll fuck you if you make her feel attractive + have a connection with heryou’ve absolutely never talked to hot girls then. They have tons of insecurities and feel ugly a lot | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 11:45 PM |
| -1 | Thought of the day: She’ll fuck you if you make her feel attractive + have a connection with herthe 1st half your comment mirrors my thoughts, but then you 180?? 🤔🤔 my advice was pretty basic | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 12:30 PM |
| 3 | Thought of the day: She’ll fuck you if you make her feel attractive + have a connection with herif young johhny Depp complimented these girls and made them feel special/attractive, would they think he’s a simp? Or be even more attracted to him? Like “Omg this high value guy thinks I’m special??” The strategy you presented is only for when she’s unsure of your value relative to her’s. And you need to show her that you’re not easy | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 12:00 PM |
| 3 | Thought of the day: She’ll fuck you if you make her feel attractive + have a connection with herI never said it was | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 11:41 AM |
| 4 | Thought of the day: She’ll fuck you if you make her feel attractive + have a connection with herall depends if she sees you as superior or not | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Girls are attracted to you if they see you with another girltrue. And I’ve seen this exact post before 🤦♂️🤦♂️ | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 05:37 AM |
| 6 | Thought of the day: She’ll fuck you if you make her feel attractive + have a connection with herconnection | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 03:35 AM |
| 0 | genuine question but how do you personally treat women you’re not attracted to?pretty sure he’s joking | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 11:47 PM |
| -2 | Getting played for drinks at the bar?don’t just buy a chick a drink lmao. got to make em earn that shit. And let them know that verbally. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 09:45 PM |
| 1 | How can I (19m) go about improving my status?not just women, but humans | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 09:40 PM |
| 5 | Have any of you ever had strong feelings for a fat girl(not curvy fat just plain)? What would you tell a guy who caught feelings for one?like y’all had the same bitch 🤦♂️🤦♂️ | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Went from no sex in 4 months to twice in one weekdo anti anxiety meds really work | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Is being 6 ft/6 ft 1 now considered short? Or am I just buying into all this trash I see on the internet?pathetic | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 09:44 AM |
| 5 | Went from no sex in 4 months to twice in one weekmedication for what | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 09:11 AM |
| 1 | How can I (19m) go about improving my status??? | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Rejectionstrike the perfect balance of pursuing and being hard to get | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Rejectionsorry op. Women change their mind alot. I had this chick all over me until I reciprocated interest. Some people are just so insecure that the ounce of validation is enough however, don’t let this affect you by not showing interested anymore. If she really liked you, she would’ve been so happy once you reciprocated interest | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 07:38 PM |
| 3 | How can I (19m) go about improving my status?there’s literally nothing wrong with his post. Are you aware of social dynamics?? | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 07:34 PM |
| 17 | How did you meet your current or last fuck buddy?because of the stress?? 🤔🤔 | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Got laid. Now, uninterested and bored. Conversation appreciated.did you just meet your coworker too?? | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 06:38 PM |
| 1 | How did I fumble all girls last nightstarting to really like this concept of plausible deniability. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 06:31 PM |
| 3 | How did I fumble all girls last nightyou tried with ugly chicks? Why? | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 06:29 PM |
| 13 | How did you meet your current or last fuck buddy?where do you work? | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Do you call woman cute?Call her cute. it’s good if she feels like a child around you | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 09:21 AM |
| 41 | You're talking to a girl you approached and her boyfriend appears. What do you do?slap her ass, then his to assert dominance | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 09:19 AM |
| 1 | How do I get with my friends momwe live for the drama 😈😈 | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Just finished a 1hour phone convo, and she texts me and wants to call again bc she said she enjoyed it. What should I do?🤣🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 01:13 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop being a seductress?don’t see a problem with this OP | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 12:22 AM |
| 0 | How do I get with my friends momwho cares if she’s married. You realize what sub we’re in? | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 08:30 AM |
| 1 | The Cute Zone to The Hot Zone?alright. Cause I fall on the opinionated potentially judgmental spectrum | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 12:42 AM |
| 2 | The Cute Zone to The Hot Zone?but you’re fine with teasing right | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | The Cute Zone to The Hot Zone?non-judgmental or opinionated men? | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 09:06 AM |
| 20 | Would redditors benefit from a 15 minute conversation with an actual woman?1st approach you’ll always feel like a creep no matter what you say. Cause it’s so foreign to you just don’t say anything too risky. Ask how her day was and shit. The purpose of our first approaches is to just get more comfortable. You don’t want to make it even harder by feeling like you need to flirt and remember after the interaction, you’re not a creep. And having desire for another person isn’t creepy. And repeat if over and over again until you don’t feel that way | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Would redditors benefit from a 15 minute conversation with an actual woman?what are your thoughts on my most recent post? | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 03:13 PM |
| 1 | How do dumb guys turn women on mentally?“How you say it”. This is what I got to work on. It’s really hard tho. My tonality, intonation, being assertive not rude, etc. How am I supposed to know how I’m coming across if nowone else tells me? I don’t want to be delusional Any practical tips? | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 06:58 AM |
| -1 | Don't be afraid to show a woman what you want!congrats brother | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 06:33 AM |
| 5 | You know how girls complain, “I hate how he acts different around his friends/others.” So what to do?don’t believe that BS. women also often complain about their men not taking the lead in the relationship. So we should suddenly stop believing that women want leaders too?? 🤔🤔 | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 02:06 AM |
| 1 | I f***king love rejection.👌 | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 01:59 AM |
| 6 | You know how girls complain, “I hate how he acts different around his friends/others.” So what to do?interesting. Cause my guy friends love me right. But from a lot of girls I get “you’re so judgemental” and they hate it. Cause I roast them all the time and shit too. So I’m not sure if it works or not with MY personality style. Maybe I should tone it down a bit?? | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 01:29 AM |
| 1 | What are some unique ways on how to make her feel special?perfect | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 01:14 AM |
| 31 | Girl the whole night was saying how she wasn’t going to have sex with meGood point | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Is it supposed to be this difficult?you need to find another therapist. They should be giving you tailored action steps for your personal circumstance | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Are there downsides to never introducing vulnerability to your interactions with women??why? I think we should lead with vulnerability to make them comfortable in opening up | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Is it supposed to be this difficult?what suggestions/action steps are they giving you | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Is it supposed to be this difficult?have you talked to your therapist about this?? Having no ability of making friends and being scared of rejection. These are the subjects we need to talk about. The ones that hurt the most And I don’t believe that you don’t have any ability to make friends. Just show personal interest. Win “how to win friends and influence people”. The main takeaway in that book is that you become a person others want to be around simply by LISTENING and showing personal interest. People like those that like them… | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 08:28 AM |
| 2 | 1st date tomorrow. We're getting Smoothies and going up the street to a park to catch the sunset. Unsure what I should do herephysically, yes. emotionally, arguable. Mentally, no. Stfu bro | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Is it supposed to be this difficult?How much pussy do you think will make you feel better? Just 1 girl? Tons of girls? Is it horniness or a need for intimacy?? What are some action steps you can make to find friends? I would suggest initiating convo with all types of people and see who clicks. Don’t have such a high standard of a friend at this stage I would assume life feels pointless because nothing feels like it’s going your way. Once you start improving in areas you want, then you should feel a little better. Also, it might be… | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 07:06 AM |
| 2 | Is it supposed to be this difficult?what are the top 5 reasons why you want to kill yourself? What’s going wrong in your life?? You can list more if you’d like | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 06:57 AM |
| 2 | What are some unique ways on how to make her feel special?hmm idk how I feel about this 🤔🤔 | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Question: So girls might be afraid to have sex with you cause they’ll feel like a slut, but love being called a slut in bed??🤔🤔tf?? | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Question: So girls might be afraid to have sex with you cause they’ll feel like a slut, but love being called a slut in bed??🤔🤔you right | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 08:25 AM |
| -5 | Question: So girls might be afraid to have sex with you cause they’ll feel like a slut, but love being called a slut in bed??🤔🤔still. Why roleplay as a slut if they’re so afraid of being one? | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 08:22 AM |
| 2 | So many girls call me a fuck boy and bad boy now, but they still don’t let me hit. Tf???damn. I’ve been doing this wrong then. I straight up say we’re gonna fuck. Cause I thought women know we try to get laid anyways, so I didn’t want to seem secretive. Thought they would respect it more | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 03:33 PM |
| 1 | So many girls call me a fuck boy and bad boy now, but they still don’t let me hit. Tf???wym by an obvious lie. And where do you draw the line of being too direct?? Would love your input because finding this middle ground has always been so difficult for me | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 10:16 AM |
| 2 | I’m an Onlyfans creator with 2 girlfriends AMAthis guy doesn’t seem tall. How tall are you OP | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 08:08 AM |
| -1 | I’m an Onlyfans creator with 2 girlfriends AMAgtfo | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 07:59 AM |
| 1 | I’m an Onlyfans creator with 2 girlfriends AMAwym don’t care. You have to have some charisma or charm too right | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 07:56 AM |
| 1 | So many girls call me a fuck boy and bad boy now, but they still don’t let me hit. Tf???wym by relate to them. Be vulnerable?? Say that I got anxiety ask em about themself and say how I’m similar?? | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 06:01 AM |
| 2 | So many girls call me a fuck boy and bad boy now, but they still don’t let me hit. Tf???tbh I’m looking for fwbs. Not just one night stands or hook ups. A chick I can talk with, connect with, and fuck the shit out of What’s the best way to get this? | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 05:56 AM |
| 2 | So many girls call me a fuck boy and bad boy now, but they still don’t let me hit. Tf???it’s worked for me in the past | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 05:55 AM |
| -1 | Is it a bad idea to have stories up on your snap or ig? Does it reduce mystery or can it create interest?🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Something I do not understandthat’s actually lowkey what my most recent post was about today. Check it out | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Something I do not understand?? | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 02:18 AM |
| 2 | Something I do not understandexactly what I’m struggling with. They hate guys who try to sneak into their pants. So I am very direct… but I guess too much of anything is bad. And I guess we do have to sneak into those pants | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 02:17 AM |
| 2 | So many girls call me a fuck boy and bad boy now, but they still don’t let me hit. Tf???u might be right. I only attract hoes. I put so much emphasis on being sexual(not all the time, but consistently), cause I’m afraid that if I don’t, I’ll be put in the friendzone. Cause I was platonic you understand me? | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 01:22 AM |
| 0 | So many girls call me a fuck boy and bad boy now, but they still don’t let me hit. Tf???starting to agree with #3. Cause I’m very assertive. Been actively working on that for a few years now | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 12:25 AM |
| 1 | So many girls call me a fuck boy and bad boy now, but they still don’t let me hit. Tf???of course you can, this is like an academic discussion. It’s about strategy and ideas, not about me How to maximize my chances of getting in her pants??? What would work on you? | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 10:02 PM |
| 0 | So many girls call me a fuck boy and bad boy now, but they still don’t let me hit. Tf???as a man, if you don’t take control and have sexual energy, then she will lose interest and put you in the friends zone category. Platonic. I don’t want them I’m trying to get in her pants. AND value her as a person. So tell me, how am I supposed to have a good chance of getting in her pants if I don’t sexualize my energy?? sexual energy meaning touch, flirt, leading her, eye contact, etc | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 09:58 PM |
| 0 | So many girls call me a fuck boy and bad boy now, but they still don’t let me hit. Tf???bad boys are dominant, assertive, take risks, funny, etc also, that’s what I mentioned in my post. Didn’t want girls to think I’m just after sex, but I get the impression that some do. I wonder how to stop making them think this. Like I want to fuck + am interested in them as people but I feel the need to flirt with them right away. And make our dynamics sexual, so I don’t get friendzoned. But apparently this makes them think I’m just after sex (I’m guessing) what can I do? | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 09:44 PM |
| -5 | So many girls call me a fuck boy and bad boy now, but they still don’t let me hit. Tf???there’s some attractive qualities in fuck boys what kinda men do you look for? | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 09:14 PM |
| -1 | So many girls call me a fuck boy and bad boy now, but they still don’t let me hit. Tf???maybe. but I was flirting with this chick over text. We were going back and forth good. Then she asked if I was a fuck boy and I said, “ I don’t consider myself one. But I’ve been called that before” And then she gave me a whole psychological analysis of who I was. And then said she didn’t want anything to do with me. And I was like, “alright” I haven’t texted her since and to my surprise, she hasn’t texted back this seems a little different | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 08:50 PM |
| 1 | I have 3 date with at beach and after we have a dinner and she reply short. she is not interessed?respect ✊ | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 08:59 AM |
| 1 | I’ve heard two contrasting ideas. “Make her feel good” vs “Make her feel like shit”. Which is more effective?u right. But some of these girls love being treated harshly | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 07:22 AM |
| 1 | is having 'style' as a man considered by some as gay?maybe you talk gay “Ohhh my goddddd” “Deadasssss???” | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 04:16 AM |
| 2 | When you’re trying to bring a girl home with you and she asks you “what are we gonna do?”, what’s a good answer?no no no. Just say “Netflix and chill (;” | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Was my coworker flirting with me when she said 4 times that day that she'd miss me?agree | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 06:33 AM |
| 1 | I’ve heard two contrasting ideas. “Make her feel good” vs “Make her feel like shit”. Which is more effective?where do we draw the line of treating her good vs being a simp 🤔🤔 | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 05:58 AM |
| -1 | I’ve heard two contrasting ideas. “Make her feel good” vs “Make her feel like shit”. Which is more effective?no | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 01:39 AM |
| -4 | I’ve heard two contrasting ideas. “Make her feel good” vs “Make her feel like shit”. Which is more effective?if it works I’m down. Some guys treat their girls like shit and they stay | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 11:21 PM |
| 1 | I’ve heard two contrasting ideas. “Make her feel good” vs “Make her feel like shit”. Which is more effective?wym | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 10:09 PM |
| 2 | I’ve heard two contrasting ideas. “Make her feel good” vs “Make her feel like shit”. Which is more effective?what extent to make her feel like shit? Like on a range from showing disapproval to insulting her | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 09:23 PM |
| 8 | When flirting, should I send a clear signal or subtle signal?clear but not too strong. And don’t escalate without reciprocation | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Thoughtshalo effect?? You want hot guys cock?? | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Most good posts are from years agoLOL. reading this shit is hilarious. Cause we’re all so alike. It’s funny that we all write about this shit and treat it serious like academics 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Las Vegas is nutsinteresting perspective. This kind of ties into my most recent post about not knowing whether to playfully accuse a girl of seducing me or not when it comes to married women, maybe I shouldn’t joke around like that cause they might feel guilty?? Which means that they’ll stop all their flirty behaviors Thoughts? | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 03:36 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Talked to girl in grocery store but was too afraid to show intentit’s kinda sad how us as men feel the need to put in so much effort and “change ourselves”. Be confident, show intent, be funny, etc etc. and all a chick has to do is talk to us. They got it on easy mode | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 04:15 AM |
| 2 | I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How.did you have a sexual energy? cause often times wanting sex later down the line feels like a bait-and-switch | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 02:56 AM |
| 1 | I finally understand why being nice is such a turn-offdumb ass | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 11:19 PM |
| 1 | What do women mean when they say they want a confident man?you’re ignorant asf. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 08:13 PM |
| 7 | What do women mean when they say they want a confident man?what about safety/protection including emotional safety. If she feels she can tell you anything. That you’ll listen to her with no judgement. Then she feels her feeling are safe with you | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 08:12 PM |
| 2 | What do women mean when they say they want a confident man?The more often I approach this question, the less I think confidence is about a lack of anxiety. But more about the actions you take, how grounded of a person you are, enforcing boundaries, bravery, and if you lead her Get that myth out of your head that anxiety == bad | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 08:07 PM |
| 6 | Is it possible to cold approach and have sex same day?great approach tactic tbh | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 06:02 PM |
| 22 | I left my number for the cute waitress and she texted me "Heyyy". What do I do?nah don’t say that op | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 10:07 AM |
| 1 | How to stop being a coward with girls?but don’t dive in and tackle your worst fears first op. Build up to it. Talk to the easy unattractive girls, etc etc | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 12:32 AM |
| 0 | My best friends mom offered to take my v-card & she sent me a topless selfie .. is she serious? or is she messing with my head?definitely | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 10:39 PM |
| 1 | As a black woman how can I be more attractive to men in everyday settings?your pretty cute. Just smile, continue convo, let them lead, and look pretty. It’s easier for girls | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 12:51 AM |
| 7 | How do I get attractive female friends???? | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 12:47 AM |
| 2 | how does one bring up the request to a friend for sex?shut up cuck | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 07:02 AM |
| 19 | how does one bring up the request to a friend for sex?I’m deadass gonna fucking use this 🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 09:39 AM |
| 1 | New to sex/relationships, semi embarrassing questionmaybe she likes that | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 03:41 AM |
| 2 | New to sex/relationships, semi embarrassing questionstart practicing with bananas. he’s gonna ask for a bj soon | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 03:27 AM |
| 0 | 😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches)mid | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 03:23 AM |
| 1 | How much of our own toxicity should we embrace?sources? | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 08:04 PM |
| 1 | How much of our own toxicity should we embrace?psychopathy?? Nah, I feel too much anxiety and emotions for that | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 08:54 AM |
| 16 | would you date someone that’s slept with your brother?when you gonna pass her around op? | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 07:28 AM |
| 5 | would you date someone that’s slept with your brother?🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 07:27 AM |
| 2 | Can you actually say whatever you want to women?ehhh you’re response wasn’t bad. She just wasn’t interested. If your irl talk was sexualized and you later texted that with a flirty/playful emoji, then I would say you did really good. Cause it communicates interest and potentially bridges to a sexual convo | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 05:08 AM |
| 1 | How much of our own toxicity should we embrace?trying. And my intention isn’t to hurt. It’s to have control | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 11:48 PM |
| -13 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?asians are nerds tho??? 😧😧 | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 11:32 PM |
| 1 | How much of our own toxicity should we embrace?yes ego is a myth yes I’ve felt this after meditation. But it only lasts a little bit. Like a high, soon you’re back to normal. In your ego However, when sober and going off my intuition. This is how I am. So how can I know PERMANENTLY, that this is not myself? it feels so natural And it feels like myself because it’s so grounded. Meaning I have plenty of experiences to back it up | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 10:38 PM |
| 1 | How much of our own toxicity should we embrace?can’t be that. I experience too much anxiety and care about popularity | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 09:55 PM |
| 5 | How much of our own toxicity should we embrace?probably a personality disorder. I’ve very narcissistic | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 09:53 PM |
| 5 | My co-worker sent me a nude .. do you think she likes me?🤣🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 10:48 PM |
| -1 | Coach Kyle and Sergio Chavez changed my lifedo I hear a competition?? I got camera man📸📸 | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Why am I rejected by lower SMV women than myself?bro SHUTUP | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Why am I rejected by lower SMV women than myself?I’m expecting the same exact thing wtf. And I low key get frustrated when they reject me cause I feel like, “you’re lucky I’m even talking to you. Better girls wanted me” | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 04:02 AM |
| 3 | I really did something dumb guys💀💀 | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 03:48 AM |
| 7 | I really did something dumb guys🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 03:36 AM |
| 35 | Do you guys think women value looks or money more?status | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 02:05 AM |
| 3 | How to deal with direct competition?mostly nature. a 6 could try their best and still be a 6 | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Successful flirt attempt? Or not?no no no no. Every once of your responses communicated “I’m incompetent” these were like motherly dynamics with her son You want the dynamics to be you as the PRIZE and leader | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 12:46 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with direct competition?of course you should look your best. But your comments imply innate physical attractiveness | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 12:45 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with direct competition?bro stop with this shit fr | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Turning her fear into attraction(Hypothesis)nope. you misinterpreted it. This post is for guys who ALREADY scare a girl and telling them how to capitalize on that fear and turn it into a positive | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 07:39 AM |
| 1 | You know those old ladies who you have no trouble talking to? | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 06:04 AM |
| 1 | You know those old ladies who you have no trouble talking tothen you’re prolly nervous around everybody. Once you improve, you’ll notice that it’s so easy to be yourself around some people. These are generally people you don’t care about or aren’t attracted to | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 04:35 AM |
| 1 | You know those old ladies who you have no trouble talking toare you attracted to them? | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Turning her fear into attraction(Hypothesis)whether she sees us as attractive or not is not within our control. We can check all the boxes and she still might think we’re weird. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Turning her fear into attraction(Hypothesis)this is a more of a specific post. Starting from the assumption that you scare her/make her feel uncomfortable for whatever reason | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 04:00 AM |
| 0 | Turning her fear into attraction(Hypothesis)Kinda the same thing no? If you make good interactions with good rapport or make her feel warm. She’ll see you as ‘good’, which means she’ll recontentualize your reputation, past actions, etc under this new perception | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 03:54 AM |
| 2 | How to make a guy understand I’m interested in himtry this op | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Can't get over the need for female validation?you won’t get over it until you get it and realize it ain’t shit | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 07:00 AM |
| 6 | Small talk with a milf at elevatora milf living with her DAD??? don’t go OP. they’re gonna fucking kill you | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 06:45 AM |
| 36 | Don't forget to make a girl feel wanted or you will be friendzonedhow to make her feel wanted? how to create sexual tension? how to flirt without coming off creepy? | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 09:33 AM |
| 1 | How to get her to remember youunfortunately, my farts sound very needy. How to clench my asshole in just the right way to show assertiveness? | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 09:04 AM |
| 1 | How to get her to remember youwell he ain’t wrong | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Wtf am I missing?👆 | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Girls not texting back when you get their number. Is this normal or did I just get rejected even worse? Feel really bad as it is my first timeall the time. don’t sweat it | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Ive crush on a girl, when i make eye contact with her i cant hold it for more than 3 seconds.absolutely nothing, expect to be nervous. time and repetition is the only way | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 08:42 AM |
| 2 | Daygame youtube coaches are like: "Run up to her and do a front stop". Does anyone else find that incredibly beta?it came off as extremely desperate | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 05:38 AM |
| 3 | a good response for “how many girls have you said that to?”btw you like 69??? | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 04:11 AM |
| 2 | When text her after sex?idk?? whatever feels organic?? Shit like this really doesn’t matter | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 04:09 AM |
| 1 | how to tell someone to not wait 2 hours before every text?or she’s playing games | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 04:08 AM |
| 1 | help guys 😢I really hope you know him OP. If you don’t, this will be a huge turn off. Hell think u got gonnorhea | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Ya’ll ever feel like your convos lack that organic flow?or the small talk itself helps create the deep emotions | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 09:25 AM |
| 1 | What advice do you guys have for attracting women that have the "baddie" look?how to exactly treat em like a hoe? | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Ya’ll ever feel like your convos lack that organic flow?I do understand that there is no “natural self” in terms of personality. Like I used to be an extroverted kid, now I’m introverted. I used to hate dark humour. Now I love it. I used to be such a people pleaser. Not I’m more assertive However, I believe that each individual has natural impulses, tendencies, and emotional responses to certain things that you can’t really change. They are immutable. This is what I define as the “natural self” For example, if I watch an emotional movie like Titanic.… | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 08:43 AM |
| 2 | Ya’ll ever feel like your convos lack that organic flow?Prolly. I feel like my true natural self is inherently unattractive Because I’m secretly terrified of everything.(isn’t that unattractive if I let them see?) But I overlay these insecurities with a strong man persona which I know is only real if others validate me If they don’t validate me? That means they saw right through me. At the little boy inside that I haven’t made peace with. The little boy that I’m afraid of So how can I make amends with this ugly part of me? I know I’ve always been ter… | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 08:23 AM |
| 3 | How can I go up to a guy at a party that I wanna fuck?how exactly “lil chubby” are you?? | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Scrolled through my old Snapchat. I got more hoes back then when I didn’t treat “seduction” like a religionfr. I notice my automatic response is the same. They don’t like me? What did I do wrong??? | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 12:21 PM |
| 1 | When she flirts or brings up sexual talk, should you ALWAYS flirt back?how often | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 12:16 PM |
| 0 | When she flirts or brings up sexual talk, should you ALWAYS flirt back?sexting builds INTENSE attraction. if you got em visualizing you fucking their lights out. they go to sleep with that on their mind | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Is it best to show interest or make her guess?yea I don’t like her. Just trying get that sweet sweet pussy 👌👌 | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Daily reminder that a woman who is interested in you, will make it easy for you.I don’t believe you’re ugly as you say you are And even if you are, remember that there’s an uglier guy than you in a relationship rn It seems like a big insecurity for you. Have you tried talking with a therapist? and creepy or not. video is the best way to know. Back in my baseball days I FELT like I mastered my swing until I saw my form on camera It was an eye-opener of just how delusion I can be. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Daily reminder that a woman who is interested in you, will make it easy for you.you get called a creep when 1) you took to long to break the touch barrier. So she feels uncomfortable cause she’s not used to that 2) you touch her way too much and feels weirdened out 3) she’s not attracted to you. And talking about #3 specifically. Attraction for women isn’t just about looks. You see ugly fat asses with pretty girls all the time. Of course looks help, but it ain’t the main thing. Like I said before, you have to portray an attractive energy Another way that builds attraction i… | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Daily reminder that a woman who is interested in you, will make it easy for you.you prolly give off friendly vibes. From the start, you have to make your intention clear. An “im interested in you and not ashamed of it” and “I want to fuck you” vibe. This doesn’t have to be verbal. Have you tried sexualizing through smiling at her like you want to fuck her? Playfully touching her? Not being scared to talk/flirt about sex? | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Daily reminder that a woman who is interested in you, will make it easy for you.are you first building rapport?? | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 10:43 PM |
| 1 | How To Be An Attractive Manhomie I’m 5’7 and still get some action. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 07:18 PM |
| 3 | Be aware of the vibe you're projecting. Women are far more intune with Men - than Men are with Womenfr man. I get no play at work. but got girls touching me and shit outside | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 06:59 PM |
| 0 | Do girls just not give a fuck about you?how are you meeting these girls?? | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 04:57 PM |
| 0 | Is it best to show interest or make her guess?doesn’t it shift the power dynamics to make her at least interested/seek in my approval/want to impress | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Is it best to show interest or make her guess?how to know if a chick is “damaged”? | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Is it best to show interest or make her guess?thanks for the tips but imagining myself giving high fives seems so cringe. So out of my persona. That’s how fucked up my mental is. /: I’ll try it. But if she rejects it then I’ll try not to get red asf 😳😳 | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Is it best to show interest or make her guess?apparently psychopaths seduce this way | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 03:42 PM |
| -7 | Is it best to show interest or make her guess?I told a girl, “you could look cuter with shorter hair” same concept?? Also, which studies your referring to | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 10:11 AM |
| 1 | How to seduce a hot shy girl who will never make the first move even if she likes you?not necessarily. Imagine a famous person complimenting you. You would feel great and wouldn’t think they put you on a pedestal I think it’s about perceived value | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 09:30 AM |
| 4 | Is it best to show interest or make her guess?how can I practically implement this? | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 08:39 AM |
| -9 | Is it best to show interest or make her guess?I’m just trying to get laid. And love bombing doesn’t hurt my conscious. So if it works, I’ll do it 🤷♂️🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 08:35 AM |
| 1 | How to seduce a hot shy girl who will never make the first move even if she likes you?came back to this post and wanted to say, Why is validating her a bad thing? some people say to validate/compliment and others say not to? giving her compliments and making her feel good can make her catch feelings What are your thoughts? | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Is it best to show interest or make her guess?I feel like ‘touch’ is the part I’m missing. I show my interest through other actions Idk why but its just really hard for me to naturally touch someone. I always feel like a creep. And it feels so awkward It sucks because touch is my love language as well | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Is it best to show interest or make her guess?so what’s the best way for a guy to tell you he likes you? By literally saying it or showing through his actions?? | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 07:47 AM |
| 3 | Is it best to show interest or make her guess?but games do work… push/pull is super effective. And if I was being completely direct, I’d come across like a simp. So I gotta play the game and keep my emotions in check | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Is it best to show interest or make her guess?agreed. I’d never confess feelings without first KNOWING she’s into me + spending lots of time her But I have a hard time knowing when I’m doing too many actions. Like I initiate conversations with her, invite her to hang out And she flaked on the hangout Is containing to initiate in-person conversations(like I normally do), show neediness or me being unfazed?? idk | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 07:23 AM |
| 0 | Is it best to show interest or make her guess?how to implement? | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Messaged all the ghosts in my phone / How to handle ghoststhis is why social dynamics are so confusing. Because persistence CAN also be attractive | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 07:04 AM |
| 1 | How to simultaneously express interest without coming off as too easy?so you’re saying pulling out 30 seconds into intercourse isn’t the way to go??? 🤔🤔 | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 06:42 AM |
| 1 | How to simultaneously express interest without coming off as too easy?cause pulling away at the high point builds attraction | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 06:32 AM |
| -4 | Is it best to show interest or make her guess?but yk games work. Which is the most effective approach | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 06:20 AM |
| 1 | How to simultaneously express interest without coming off as too easy?cause if she thinks she can fuck me anytime she wants. She will value me less. And have second thoughts | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 07:33 PM |
| 5 | How to simultaneously express interest without coming off as too easy?what about coming across as “sexually easy”. Like she thinks that id fuck her no matter what she does. Anytime she wants. But that’s not true. I want her to know that sometimes she has to work for it. But how to display this? | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth it trying to take a girl from the ‘slightly interested, but not really’ zone to the ‘really interested’ zone?why stop validating her?? | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 06:49 PM |
| 2 | How do you flirt without coming across as a simp?so I don’t know when to do what 🤷♂️🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 10:45 PM |
| 3 | How do you flirt without coming across as a simp?i no understand. sometimes bullying her works | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth it trying to take a girl from the ‘slightly interested, but not really’ zone to the ‘really interested’ zone?so match her energy > making her match my energy? making her match the energy that I CHOOSE seems more dominant you see why I’m so confused?? | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth it trying to take a girl from the ‘slightly interested, but not really’ zone to the ‘really interested’ zone?that response doesn’t help me. I’m looking at this through an academic lenses as the best thing to do for next times | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 09:04 AM |
| 0 | A girl rejected me after showing many indicators of interest. What to do next?I don’t think you understand this. It’s not that black and white. There aren’t some things that you should never say. I understand what you say if I gave off a vibe of insecurity. But just imagine someone saying it all confident, with a real smile, and playful vocal tonality. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 10:29 PM |
| 0 | A girl rejected me after showing many indicators of interest. What to do next?that’s why I said playfully. I’m giving off an abundant vibe rather than insecure. I’d smile when I say it | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 09:50 PM |
| 1 | A girl rejected me after showing many indicators of interest. What to do next?thanks for the tip. But you can’t tell someone to stop being anxious when it’s medical. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 07:59 PM |
| 2 | A girl rejected me after showing many indicators of interest. What to do next?nah I asked her the day of. Problem was that I was anxious as fuck and our conversation didn’t flow like it usually does cause I woke up rlly anxious. But she still gave me her number and shit. After I kept kicking myself for coming off so anxious. But I can’t help it. It’s just how I am some days. And it would disturb me to know that she lost interest based on that ONE bad interaction. That would be so shallow. I felt like she was chasing me before. I can’t be at my best all the time! | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 07:15 PM |
| 2 | A girl rejected me after showing many indicators of interest. What to do next?that’s exactly why I made sure to ask fast. Didn’t want her to lose interest. Literally asked the day she came up to me, touched me, and started a convo. It’s like she really lost interest in a few hours??? | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 07:03 PM |
| 1 | When girls know I’m in control, why do they try to reverse it?u assumed wrong sexual tension > immaturity | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 09:54 PM |
| 1 | When girls know I’m in control, why do they try to reverse it?why sorry | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 09:50 PM |
| -2 | When girls know I’m in control, why do they try to reverse it?what does that mean. What should be my course of action | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 08:28 PM |
| 1 | How to stop stressing about the girls I almost haddoubt anyone wants to fuck you | /r/seduction | 17/09/21 08:25 PM |
| 8 | How to stop stressing about the girls I almost hadnever wife a ho | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 08:40 PM |
| 8 | How to stop stressing about the girls I almost hadstanky fish | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 07:53 PM |
| 55 | How to stop stressing about the girls I almost hadreality | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 05:47 PM |
| 2 | How to shoot my shot with a girl I barely know?yea. I got a boner | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 04:17 PM |
| 1 | How to shoot my shot with a girl I barely know?yes and still confused…. | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 02:48 AM |
| 2 | How to shoot my shot with a girl I barely know?how does this help me in my goal of talking to her more | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 02:41 AM |
| 2 | How to shoot my shot with a girl I barely know?will try. | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 02:40 AM |
| 3 | How to respond to a girl who initiates conversation and is obviously interested.so how to game? | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 01:10 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to a girl who initiates conversation and is obviously interested.we’ll find out soon enough (; | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 12:32 AM |
| 2 | How to respond to a girl who initiates conversation and is obviously interested.yea what I consider a short-term time frame is like a month max. | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 12:30 AM |
| -3 | How to respond to a girl who initiates conversation and is obviously interested.we have interacted. And mind games are fine. I’m trying to get hookups not relationships | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 12:15 AM |
| 3 | How to seduce a hot shy girl who will never make the first move even if she likes you?wym validate her? | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 05:43 AM |
| 9 | How can I overcome my fear of coming off as a creep?10/10 advice 👍👍 | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 05:57 AM |
| 9 | How should I respond when I initiate touch but she backs away?I hate this sub | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 09:09 PM |
| 1 | What do I do if she wants to bring her older brother on a first date?I like this | /r/seduction | 03/07/21 08:15 PM |
| 2 | How can I incorporate a sense of slight ‘risk’ or ‘danger’ into my personality??most girls are attracted to a sense of danger in a man. So yes. | /r/seduction | 29/06/21 01:05 AM |
| 2 | How can I incorporate a sense of slight ‘risk’ or ‘danger’ into my personality??hookups with girls I’ve built emotional connections with. No girlfriend | /r/seduction | 29/06/21 12:37 AM |
| 3 | How can I incorporate a sense of slight ‘risk’ or ‘danger’ into my personality??depends on if I’m looking for one night stands or not | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 09:55 PM |
| 3 | How can I incorporate a sense of slight ‘risk’ or ‘danger’ into my personality??good idea. I love shit dick | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 09:55 PM |
| 1 | What are the behaviors and mannerisms I should incorporate into my personality to make a woman feel safe in my presence?I have very confident posture. Im short tho, 5’7. How will a girl feel safe around me when a 6’1 guy confronts me. | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 09:12 PM |
| 2 | A girl indirectly rejected me three times. How should I respond in a way where I maintain my self-respect?will do | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 08:36 PM |
| 2 | A girl indirectly rejected me three times. How should I respond in a way where I maintain my self-respect?I will talk to other girls. And I will not text this girl unless she texts me first. But she is my coworker and I see her almost every day. I won’t just ignore her. | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 08:32 PM |
| 2 | A girl indirectly rejected me three times. How should I respond in a way where I maintain my self-respect?very true. Thanks | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 08:31 PM |
| 1 | A girl indirectly rejected me three times. How should I respond in a way where I maintain my self-respect?😂😂🤦♂️🤦♂️ | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 08:28 PM |
| 1 | What are the behaviors and mannerisms I should incorporate into my personality to make a woman feel safe in my presence?will do, thanks. | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 08:20 PM |
| 2 | What are the behaviors and mannerisms I should incorporate into my personality to make a woman feel safe in my presence?I don’t physically train in combat sports but am looking too. As a short guy I’m going to try bjj. Sometimes I can talk myself out of situations, but many times not because my social anxiety makes me super brain fogged and socially paralyzed. | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 08:17 PM |
| 1 | A girl indirectly rejected me three times. How should I respond in a way where I maintain my self-respect?Nvm, missed your last sentence | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 08:04 PM |
| 1 | What are the behaviors and mannerisms I should incorporate into my personality to make a woman feel safe in my presence?I’m talking more about the safety of her being secure that I could protect her from other dangerous guys. How can I display that I’m capable? | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 08:02 PM |
| 2 | A girl indirectly rejected me three times. How should I respond in a way where I maintain my self-respect?But what do you mean by move on? Emotionally, I’m already moved on. Since we work together I know that we’re going to keep talking. But should I keep conversating to her in our normal manner and essentially ignore the three rejections? Or should I now change our relationship dynamics? | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 08:01 PM |
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