I personally love when that shit happens
It gives me character. She’ll remember me. And it gives me a chance to show her how unfazed I am as I playfully smile at her and walk it off
If y’all can’t risk looking “stupid” in front of the girl. You prolly have a real hypersensitive macho persona
Which means that you’re not really this tough macho guy you try to be. I mean really, all it took was something so trivial to break your persona.
You have to be grounded. People who truly don’t give no fucks don’t care if they fuck up or look stupid. And a lot of the times if they do, they don’t see it as embarrassing, but they see it as funny.
This is because they know who they are. And nothing changes that.
(note: If little things dramatically change you’re feelings about yourself. And your self-perception. Then you aren’t yet this tough/confident guy you desire to be. Work on that)
Like just imagine a little charming kid fucking up. He trips over his shoe lace. He doesn’t give a fuck. Or he does some other dumb shit. He doesn’t give a shit
And also, I like it when she sees me do something stupid because it makes me more relatable. And it adds contrast to my naturally masculine personality.
But I’m only comfortable with this because I KNOW that I can rely on my masculine personality to continue to dominate her and be the leader of our dynamics.
Y’all who get so embarrassed so easily and hold up a macho front are probably that way because you don’t have any trust in your own personality.
Which means that your personality consists of getting easily bitched and lack masculine energy. So you have to rely on trivial shit like “I have to always be macho”
No. That thought in itself is the issue. Work on trusting your own personality first
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