Happens with coworkers.

Once they get comfortable with me, they’ll start telling me to do shit for them. “Go get this for me” “do that” “I’m not going to do that“, etc

Sometimes I do what they say, other times I say no, and other times I also ask them to do something for me

Then it becomes a playful battle of who will listen to who. I can easily take back control because I give less fucks.

But why do girls do this? Is this common?

This reminded me of that one scene in Spring Breakers where the girls playfully dominate James Franco after he clearly has power (https://youtu.be/ZBlmq_Mz3yE)