This might even be something for askseddit but..

How do you guys deal with asd that turns out to be more? I went to a show with This girl I've been hanging out with, she's been real positive to my escalation so after we head back to her house and prior to sleeping with her (pretty sure that means it wasnt be being awful) she tells me she can't do this which I take as some reg asd and circumvent that. Little bit later she stops again and starts talking about how she likes this other guy...etc (I know this guy and he's pretty fun to hang out with) anyway - she says i can still stay but I have work in the morning and don't wanna stay up talking about some random guy so I leave to sleep.

I'm not sure how to continue on here, there is some level of interest or maybe there isn't? Any help would be appreciated