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8

Sounds like a real catch...could've saved a whole lot of time and just said you banged a wee tart.
/r/seduction19/05/14 03:00 PM
2

Sounds like you were a bit of a jack in the box. I can just visualise you right in her face going as 100 miles an hour and her thinking 'wtf??' Like a lot of people I think your a bit too obsessed with the theory and forget about the human side of things.
/r/seduction14/06/13 08:24 AM
1

Use the same jokes And humour you use on the girls you don't like with the ones you do like. Guys tend to be a bit more edgier and close to the bone with girls we don't pursue. Doesn't need to be sexual but just show you can say those jokes without fear of disapproval.
/r/seduction06/04/13 10:15 PM
2

Just genuinely make her laugh. I'm a guy and even I appreciate the rare customers that really make you chuckle.
/r/seduction13/03/13 10:04 PM
1

Sounds like a really good night out. I wonder if maybe when the logistics aren't right not to just talk to someone else for a bit and then back to the girls. What I mean is, it seems like you spent a lot of the night with them and not your friends. A girl will pick up on this, they won't usually think 'this guy just really likes me!' the way we think it does. But seriously excellent progress. You had a great night with some girls without getting laid. Really remember that.
/r/seduction09/02/13 11:02 PM
3

'yeah I'll just find some other dork to hang/work etc with.'
/r/seduction07/02/13 10:36 AM
2

I know exactly what you mean and to be honest I never really rationalised it until now. I get a bit flustered when I know where it's heading. Whether its a k-close or f-close I do sort of think 'do I really want this?'. Like, is the effort worth the prize and whatever comes next...
/r/seduction04/02/13 05:04 PM
1

Brilliant FR, need more like this!
/r/seduction04/02/13 05:01 PM
3

Without details I don't see how anyone can help you. You 'tried' talking to some girls. What is try? What did you say? What was the situation like? I really think a lot of failed FR's have little to do with any actual game whether it's PUA stuff or just things we try ourselves. Without any details it's pointless because we have no idea what you did right and wrong.
/r/seduction04/02/13 04:54 PM
17

Don't stick your dick in crazy.
/r/seduction03/02/13 11:07 AM
2

Also add I never talk while it's going on. I just smile when she laughs.
/r/seduction02/02/13 02:21 PM
5

'good, things won't get complicated.'
/r/seduction01/02/13 11:08 AM
59

I had a method I used by accident. It's situational but it's always got a good laugh. If your at a party/bar/club and you see some drama unfolding. In my instance it was a drunk girl who was close to exploding into rage or tears because people were slowly leaving her party. I was sitting on a couch beside this girl I'd barely spoke to and said 'wanna see something cool?' I told her to get closer and I held my hand out. 'I have a built in drama detector', I said, as I motioned towards drama girl.…
/r/seduction01/02/13 11:05 AM
14

Well done I guess. But is anyone noticing a trend with field reports lately? Just full of badassery talk but no real substance. If you go out partying regularly its no uncommon for girls to just take an interest in one person. Sure you had the foresight not to fuck it up but that's it. I dunno I just wish people made their FR actually detailed accounts of actual approaches. Not some yadda yadda yadda story about how someone closed a drunk girl.
/r/seduction27/01/13 08:48 AM
2

11 works really well, especially if you point out someone who really looks bad or awkward. 'that guy over there is PERFECT for you' laughs 'No way! / very funny' 'he totally is, he looks like a little puppy, a "yes" man. I can't do that, I'm not always a yes man and not always a good man ;))' You can basically throw any perceptions of LV on to someone else. Its great.
/r/seduction20/01/13 09:37 AM
3

Really sounds like he's had his eye on you for a while now. I imagine it's definitely because you talked to the wrong girl and after that he saw you with more and more girls. Personally I would contact the guy above him and explain the situation. I think most bar owners would encourage this sort of thing going on, it's good business.
/r/seduction20/01/13 08:47 AM
1

For an English speaker Japanese is one of the tougher languages to learn. Especially with a thick Glasgow accent.
/r/seduction07/01/13 03:39 PM
2

Question: are you Japanese or speak Japanese? I'm Scottish and going to Tokyo in the summer but I feel the language/culture could be an issue.
/r/seduction07/01/13 02:26 PM
1

You do know if you meet them again you need to keep up this accent haha. Nice FR
/r/seduction07/01/13 02:12 PM
0

Your 'understanding' it enough to down vote every reply.
/r/seduction27/12/12 02:57 PM
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So a girl masturbating is degrading to you? It's an innuendo, one of the most common, simplest forms of comedy. Fake it till you make it does not mean blindly just smashing your head against the wall. I can bet its looking at the details too much that is holding him back. The beauty of humour is that everyone is different. What I find funny you may not but there are people who do enjoy my brand of humour. The same will go for OP, he needs to have a method he can lend his own brand to and keep ad…
/r/seduction27/12/12 02:41 PM
2

I completely agree with you on this it can be a very powerful draw. I added it to my list of the 'dark arts of PUA'. Even girls who haven't smoked weed before can be drawn to you because of that thrill of the unknown. Most intelligent folk know a innocent toke is harmless and want to experience it. I have ex's who would never meet with me casually but would come over and lie on my bed getting baked if I told them to.
/r/seduction27/12/12 01:17 PM
2

Great guide, formatted well for all to see. I'll probably get down voted to death but...it's hardly your guide, is it? It's all almost entirely documented in 'the game'. But that aside, this information needs to be put on here in a clear format. If only to encourage fresh material and ideas.
/r/seduction21/12/12 03:28 PM
0

Surely she explained who the guy was? You saw a guy and automatically thought she wanted to bang him...now think about if you were her boyfriend and you saw her with the guy, you would've acted the same way. Need to stop acting like a jealous baby dude.
/r/seduction19/12/12 11:28 AM
6

You gave the guy the best opportunity to make you look like a tool mate, especially if you know jack shit about poetry. Never put yourself in those situations where you might be called out to answer immature remarks. What would have been absolutely boss would be if you took the poem from her, and gave it a healthy, unbiased, critique. Gave the guy some pointers and then asked the girl what SHE thought.
/r/seduction15/12/12 03:26 PM
1

Someone touched on it I think but yeah. Big him up with all the positive negatives. 'oh wait till you meet him, he's such a NICE guy' 'he's a big mummy's boy, gets along so well with girls' Works so well. Don't ever call him a player or jokingly tell your girl to 'watch him' I say that sort of stuff to HELP friends lol.
/r/seduction14/12/12 01:14 PM
1

I think your over thinking the details as someone said before. It's perfectly fine to have a female opinion when you go clothes shopping but remember its only an opinion. When you find yourself askin her to dress you thats when you should be worrying. I don't think there is much wrong with being a nice guy. But any interaction must be two-way, for example: Your talking to a girl and your being your lovely self and suddenly she says something you disagree with. Bad nice guy will agree with her or…
/r/seduction13/12/12 03:43 PM
2

Fair enough, everyone has their own way of dealing with their own emotions. Other peoples emotions, as you have no doubt learned, are handled differently from person to person. If you really do like her just show that you notice and that you care. Throw the PUA shit out the window for now and just make her smile again.
/r/seduction13/12/12 01:46 PM
7

No offence but if she's crying in class there's probably a real reason for it, asking how best to 'deal' with it without losing attraction just sounds ridiculous to me. I think people lose sight of what PUA is and it's more of this attitude that girls aren't actually human. If anyone is suffering, and you care for them on ANY level, then for me it doesn't matter I'll see if I can console them. Regardless of whatever shit has gone on in my personal life. An example. A girl I loved that I was frie…
/r/seduction13/12/12 10:41 AM
1

Mostly natural, but if something funny or interesting happens I do find myself automatically running through the best way to repeat it.
/r/seduction13/12/12 06:38 AM
1

Nick names are the best way to go because it doubles up as a connection between you both. On Friday night I opened a girl, after some banter she said I looked like a priest(I had some awful layering on the go). I said 'you know, by admitting you find priests attractive, you have opened yourself up to a world of sexual, and quite kinky flirtatious chat. And I really don't think you can handle it'. She accepted the challenge and the rest of the night I was 'Father MacStubbA' and she was something …
/r/seduction11/12/12 07:58 PM
2

Your FR was not boring! You actually gave an account of dialogue, tone, etc Most FR lately are shocking it's usually 'met this girl, spoke for 20min and then she left. I didn't feel it anyway to fuck her'. That's boring!
/r/seduction11/12/12 12:26 PM
1

My friend knows nothing about game but gets girls all the time. His advice for me with a girl I was completely friend zoned with was to just take my erect penis out. I actually made her my gf without using this advice but I asked her if it would've worked and she said probably lol.
/r/seduction09/12/12 10:36 AM
0

You clearly didn't read what I wrote. I said never overdo it. It's situational and it lends itself humorously to lots of situations. It's never intended to be heavy or intense. It works for me and from what I've read it has worked for others. I'm never offensive, never overly sexual. If I had to describe what I do I'd say 'overly romantic' And I've NEVER been called creepy.
/r/seduction02/12/12 12:45 AM
1

Well I think it's because he's a creep and a dick. I'm not.
/r/seduction01/12/12 03:26 PM
5

In my experience being weird is a fast track to the friend zone. Your her weird mate. The wacky one.
/r/seduction30/11/12 01:02 PM
5

Just one thing nobody has said yet. Your asking for a SECOND opinion. You don't want to ask her to dress you unless it gets to that kind of playful chemistry. You should already know your style and be confident enough to dress yourself properly.
/r/seduction30/11/12 01:00 PM
7

Yeah it does sound like your interactions are a bit too straight forward. HB10's do not tell a guy they are hot within minutes of a cold approach unless there is some reason for like. I.e. your good looking or she's drunk.
/r/seduction28/11/12 12:56 PM
1

With a girl you do know just treat her like she's already your girlfriend. Hand on the back to guide her etc
/r/seduction27/11/12 02:24 AM
1

I dunno who came up with this first but when a girl acts like this just look her straight in the eye and say 'your not fooling anyone.'. Don't explain yourself just smile and walk away and chat to someone else.
/r/seduction26/11/12 12:48 PM
2

Silly boy!
/r/seduction25/11/12 08:07 PM
1

I dunno about school now(28 here) but my last relationship we had such an amazing bond early on but I'm not sure if that was just sheer luck. I would sometimes role play randomly and expect her to play along which she did. A good example of this is in cabin in the woods, when hemsworths girlfriend is holding the school textbook, he grabs it off her saying angrily 'what is this, who's teaching you this, WHO TAUGHT YOU THIS???' and she runs out the room screaming. This sort of thing is real fun to…
/r/seduction25/11/12 10:29 AM
3

Think that is clearest I think from the text is that it really seems forced. I don't mean on her I mean your messages. It really feels like your trying to game her. I dunno it's just my opinion. For me as soon as she said no dates I'd have said 'who said it was a date?'. She made an assumption that your like every other guy and you basically proved her right by trying to get her on a date. Let her feel the fool for taking you for granted, let her realise you want her in your life regardless of i…
/r/seduction25/11/12 10:20 AM
2

Storytelling is awesome! A lot of sub-standard stories can be made amazing by just taking the time to add in the qualities that make them compelling. Use senses! If it adds fun to your stories, expand on these parts, smell, touch etc Sound effects! One of my favourites, using accents especially. I find using a Beatles style accent always makes people laugh if you can use it. - think bill hicks. Use your arms, facial features, and body language to portray the characters or a particular action. Th…
/r/seduction25/11/12 10:01 AM
1

This is cool I'll try it! Usually I tell them I don't want them texting me constantly like a creep. Flipping it yo!
/r/seduction25/11/12 09:42 AM
1

It sounds like your getting numbers fine. Look around you for inspiration in the moment. If you see something fun, let's say, a bouncy castle? I dunno whatever you see. Then do not ask her to go just tell her 'ok I have an idea, come' and take her hand. Just control the situation. She wants to see your idea of fun.
/r/seduction24/11/12 12:04 PM
2

Just observe and smile to show your observing their subtle comments. To be honest I think it's mostly in your head though. But if you do come across a twat I found its best to just look like your observing the wanker in his natural environment and have a comment ready(NOT A COME BACK). You turn from him and comment to someone else. I.e. 'what a charmer' 'he seems nice'. Trust me I used to cut to the core of people and win the fight. Then realise the girls fucked off because I put too much energy…
/r/seduction24/11/12 11:57 AM
2

I'm 27 and alls fair in love and war. I just want to put across the message that I have my own life and I am 100% committed to the people I give my time to but if someone abuses that privelidge then I spend my time on other things. If a girls been longer than 20min I've actually just left and went some place else. When she calls I say I got bored of waiting for her so I'm in 'x place'.
/r/seduction18/09/12 10:09 AM
1

Make it obvious about the two different worlds and add some humour to diffuse the situation. I like the idea of just TELLING her your Introducing her to something you love but just make sure it's actually fun. I don't recommend forcing her to drink though. Honestly you should be happy you found a girl who will never go fucking crazy after a few vodkas ;)
/r/seduction18/09/12 10:05 AM
0

Honestly best thing to do. Call her, when she says 'oh I'll be 15min', make sure your not there. Go off and buy some cigs or take a walk. Just make sure your like 5 min late for her. When she asks where you were you can say 'oh I was meeting someone' or whatever. I know it's a bit silly but this worked for me.
/r/seduction17/09/12 08:14 PM
2

Do you actually like her? Or are you just trying to get into a relationship with an attractive girl?
/r/seduction17/09/12 05:59 PM
1

I thought I was ugly. Messy black hair, young face, thick black rim glasses, super high cheekbones and a pointy chin. I then let my stubble grown in a bit thicker and BAM. I started getting comments on my 'look'. I got comparisons from Tarantino(not so good) to Jarvis cocker to fucking Justin timberlake. One thing I have in common with those people? FUCK ALL. The point is you don't know what someone will find attractive. Apparently a lot of girls find the Jarvis cocker look very attractive while…
/r/seduction17/09/12 04:29 PM
2

Completely agree with you gay clubs are amazing! My friend is gay and has a hard time finding people to go with but I'm always game. One thing I will say though is when your showing the gay males attention really make it genuine. They may be the best anti-cockblocker but if you ignore them they will cockblock you quicker than any straight girl could. A line I always used that made most girls gush was when they asked why I came to the gay clubs. I had two main responses. Either I told them that m…
/r/seduction17/09/12 04:09 PM
1

You could've used the would you kiss me retort again. I'd have made some statement about her assumption of you.
/r/seduction16/09/12 02:57 PM
2

It's simple mate, don't open girls dancing in clubs. Clubs are loud at the best of times never mind on a packed dance floor. Dance floors are full of guys going from girl to girl looking for an easy make out. The only girls who go for this are drunk girls. As for girls giving you the cold shoulder. Girls dance because they want to dance. Sure there is some game to be had but it's not the easiest place to start because you have to remember its where most chumps try to open girls in the cringiest …
/r/seduction13/09/12 12:41 PM
2

You know.....I really wouldn't be surprised....if you went out on a few dates with different girls like NOW. Id bet she starts seriously warming to you. There's obviously some parts to you she's having seconds thoughts with. It may even be the limited scope of conversation. Or maybe she just needs a jolt of jealousy. I dunno I'm just babbling I guess but I wouldn't drop that pursuit just yet.
/r/seduction12/09/12 01:21 AM
2

Sometimes girls do just have boyfriends. I think your doing ok. Possibly a bit too obvious with your intentions. Personally, I enjoy making them laugh for minute or two before I decide on my intentions. If she says to me she had a boyfriend I would say 'ah how unfortunate' then just change the subject and continue having a nice playful chat. I say this because your right, some girls will be lying to you. You can't call them out as liars. All you can do is continue to show off your social skills,…
/r/seduction10/09/12 01:09 PM
1

Height is a huge plus, but then so is a chiseled jawline, or a perfect hairline. You are not going to pick up every single girl but you will pick up no girls at all if you continue to believe your at some disadvantage. If something is out with your control why is it even an issue?
/r/seduction10/09/12 12:55 PM
2

In those situations you can't talk. It would be silly and as an alpha, you don't do silly! So I'd dance with her for a bit then say your going for a drink/smoke whatever, and take her hand. If she lets you take her then you know it's still on. If she stays on the dance floor just open more people. Also, if you do try to isolate one girl, don't let your friend follow you because that just looks weird. If you are opening other girls make sure to acknowledge any girls you opened earlier. For exampl…
/r/seduction10/09/12 12:45 PM
2

I dunno what you said to the girls so I dont know what was missing. But if you meet girls outside the first thing to do is tell them you'll catch up with them later. If you sit down with them the first thing their thinking is 'uh oh! We are stuck with the same 2 guys all night'. Try a bit more teasing, bit of the cat n string idea. When that girl TELLS you to stand up and go dance with her to PRETEND to be her boyfriend. C'mon man? She basically made you her bitch. She told you to do something a…
/r/seduction09/09/12 08:20 PM
3

To be honest I'd have pointed it out to her. Something like 'right I have to go be a good host. Are you going to be ok with all these womanisers about?'
/r/seduction08/09/12 06:21 PM
2

Honestly couldn't say mate. I just used stories about myself or my friends or an article/fact I read. Just start off telling them to some friends and work out which things get the best reaction. For me the biggest game changer was my tone of voice. After that everything became much more respective.
/r/seduction08/09/12 10:09 AM
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When the fight started you could have said 'they are big boys, they can handle it themselves' or just been honest 'there is no fight, that guy just wanted me away from you but that's not going to happen. Because I'm enjoying out chat' It could be construed as alpha to reading other potential males intentions and swatting them aside without even moving a muscle. Especially if she has bought into his attempt. If it was your party I would have done lots more kino and kept leaving and coming back. J…
/r/seduction08/09/12 10:07 AM
2

No he was from Scotland. We were about 4/5 at the time. We all sat in class with our little shorts and shirts on. Then all of a sudden i just get this wave of shit punch me in the nostrils. Obviously I was worried I might have shit myself. Then I saw this kid leaning to the side and filling his socks up with bits of shit. The teacher noticed and asked if he was ok. He just nodded his head in silence to say no and was led out the class. I never saw him after primary school, probably to stop peopl…
/r/seduction08/09/12 09:56 AM
1

All I did was explained all the senses and emotions in my story using my expressions, voice, body language, hands, accents, and little sound effects. One by one I'd build them up.
/r/seduction08/09/12 09:52 AM
1

Yeah I agree totally I don't sit and talk about myself now it was just my little stepping stone.
/r/seduction08/09/12 09:49 AM
1

So you can see everything from the outside sort of. It's hard to describe but if I was to accept their advances I felt like I still didn't have complete control of the situation yet.
/r/seduction08/09/12 09:46 AM
1

Might be down to your friend coming across as bragging. It might also be that he really isn't any good at telling the story well.
/r/seduction08/09/12 03:23 AM
1

Maybe I am full of shit. But as I said, it worked for me. All I'm saying is if someone out there still hasn't got the balls to go up with the thought in there head of 'I'm opening this girl' etc. this MIGHT help them like it helped me.
/r/seduction07/09/12 10:40 PM
3

I'll post some FR's in the future. I'm still pretty new to Reddit but I've been applying the game for a bit now. I ain't no master class though. Sometimes I get laid sometimes I don't.
/r/seduction07/09/12 09:33 PM
7

Yeah and you got a good rise out of it! Now imagine a chump who thinks the world of girls like that. If he went in with the same mindset as you and made a conscious decision not to take any notice of her flirting. He would realise she's just a normal human girl in no time.
/r/seduction07/09/12 09:31 PM
5

Yes but as I said I started to concentrate on parts of what makes you attractive. Adding in kino always felt unnatural for me after approaching with the thought already in my head that 'I'm going over there to show that girl that I'm a sexual being..even if she rejects me' but as soon as I thought about kino I was thinking 'now I'm told to use physical contact. ' and when I did it just FELT completely unnatural. I had did it at the right moment but it probably looked unnatural too. After about a…
/r/seduction07/09/12 09:29 PM
13

It helped me with AA. It was easy to go up to a girl with the sole intentions of just talking about what's in my head. There was no win or lose. If it doesn't work I apologise but it scored 100% from me. Nobody else was giving their account of just how they overcame AA so I thought i would share.
/r/seduction07/09/12 08:12 PM
3

That might be so. I could approach girls but once I started trying to adapt the game I realised I had nothing left to say. This was because I had this sense that I wasn't technically being me and that once I started being me she wouldn't be interested. This played havoc with my mind. I decided I wanted to use material that reflected who I am as a person. Not a perfect person, but that's fine. In the clubs and bars I would just sit down in a booth beside some girls. I'd honestly just say hi, ask …
/r/seduction07/09/12 07:32 PM
2

Yes but I'm sure you know tonnes of friends who have done outrageous stuff. I'm sure you have too as a child. Surely you parents have told you about things you did? Any fights you got into in school? Anytime you got in trouble? Or been embarrassed? Or scared? Honestly you can't begin to think what's boring until you get some input. If it evoked feelings in you it will evoke them in others.
/r/seduction07/09/12 07:24 PM
8

Well this is probably the only game I played. I'd ask a question of them. When they reply I then go into a story about either the answer she gave or the question I gave. The story is either funny or interesting, at which point they will either be laughing or asking questions. If they aren't I quickly follow up with a related question to their answer. As I did this I noticed myself adapting the stories, adding in descriptions of my friends, how I felt, what senses were triggered etc I must say th…
/r/seduction07/09/12 07:08 PM
2

Oh and examples of things I talked about. My friend who uses what I call 'manitary towels' he puts tissue paper in his boxers to soak up leaks. Embarrassing sex stories with ex partners The time I saved a seagull with a broken wing - I go on to explain that I didn't really, I just threw a box on top of it then sat on the box until the RSPCA arrived. My gaming experience, went to CS tournaments as a kid. Played WoW. Etc The football team I support, my best memory of watching football. My favourit…
/r/seduction07/09/12 06:58 PM
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I agree but I was a gentle soul back then and I didn't want rejection. There are loads of people who can handle rejection but still don't have much to say. Everyone has stuff to say. They just haven't learned what stuff works and what doesn't.
/r/seduction07/09/12 06:49 PM
17

It wasn't, not then anyway ;)
/r/seduction07/09/12 06:46 PM
5

This wasn't about success or failure. This was about me showing myself that I indeed have things to say to extremely good looking girls. A lot of people have been asking how to make that first step in approaching a good looking girl or asking what to talk about. For me, this worked. Throwing myself into sets trying to remember all the aspects of the game didn't work for me. I was always a bit shy and when your shy your head is clouded by loads of shit and then you start trying to remember all th…
/r/seduction07/09/12 06:46 PM
2

Most of the time yeah it was just a simple hi then ask their name. I'd ask one question on the spot like, where did you get your shoes? Either she would say something that fired up a memory in my brain of something about myself or I started some story about a cool pair of shoes I had or have. I think on the shoe topic I started talking about those old trainers with the lights in them I had as a kid. Then I asked if she knew where I could buy a pair. As I say, this method worked for me. It allowe…
/r/seduction07/09/12 06:39 PM
2

I did anything that came to mind. If the girl was a bit kooky I'd ask then if they liked games. If they said yes I'd high five them and then tell them I'm a massive nerd and that I played world of Warcraft all through my student years. I didn't really care whether they cared or not, that wasn't the point. The point was I was scared to talk to any girl over a HB5 because I thought I had nothing to say to them. Once I did this exercise it made applying all the focused aspects of the game much more…
/r/seduction07/09/12 06:35 PM
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The goal wasn't to get numbers for me. I wanted to completely obliterate any AA ever again. This is just what worked for me. In retrospect I could have had a lot of numbers even by just doing this but I wasn't thinking about it. It's strange but I think it allowed me to develop some natural game. Like, instead of using canned lines or stories I knew what personal stories rocked and what ones didn't.
/r/seduction07/09/12 05:28 PM
1

Oh and I dunno how to fail safe the friendship being ruined. You find out aaaaaallllot of unwelcome stuff once you get out of that friend zone ;)
/r/seduction07/09/12 03:13 PM
3

Well I just make arrangements to do something with her in the city. I kept in the mindset that each thing we did was a date. I treated her like she was already mine, lots of kino etc On our first 'date' we went to the library(our library is some 400 year old work of art) I then suggested we go through some staff only door and then we wandered about all the blocked off areas for about an hour until we got caught(I'm 27 btw haha). Anyways it really felt like our thing though. After that I suggeste…
/r/seduction07/09/12 03:11 PM
1

Check out the post I just did too. It might be of help.
/r/seduction07/09/12 02:58 PM
1

I acted upon it. We broke up 2 years later. The relationship would have lasted for years but we were both really lazy and just relied on the friends dynamic, which really didn't work. So my advice would be this. If you do go for it, you need to actually treat her like a girlfriend and not just your buddy.
/r/seduction07/09/12 02:56 PM
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Ask more open questions. Not what do you major in but WHY. How did you all become friends? Who's the bossiest in the group? If you run out of ideas always ask a why or if type question. Something that forces them to think and string a sentence together. You should be teasing them on their answers at this point so the whole thing feels fun instead of an interview. Remember, if you think the question your about to ask is obvious. Mix it up or reword it.
/r/seduction07/09/12 02:36 PM
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When I started out I noticed in my area(Glasgow) girls are not completely receptive to the game. Girls in Glasgow are very sharp and honest and the ones that aren't THINK they are and can be quite cruel. So if you neg too hard they WILL bite back, hard. But it's all because drunken guys in Glasgow can be very full on. So most girls have ultra bitch shields up. It's still hard to game these girls at night, day game is far more flexible over here.
/r/seduction06/09/12 12:37 PM
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I think the most important thing is you enjoy the dancing your doing and don't look at her for approval. I honestly think if your dancing with a girl you have already opened its the one place you can break eye contact and just enjoy yourself. I like to dance a bit camp. I just picked up loads of the cheesy disco moves over the years. Sometimes I'll throw in a few body pops. You could check online or notice little moves people do in music videos. A girl will not be impressed if you know an entire…
/r/seduction06/09/12 12:29 PM
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No offence mate but your attitude is a bit out of whack. If anyone is looking for tips on seduction I wouldn't recommend any of the stuff on this post. The caveman style can work but you need to actually have the attitude to go with it, an attitude that makes the girl feel safe with you. The whole point of the game is to draw out the positive(but rare) qualities douchebags possess without the douchbag part. You are applying no game at all. Put yourself in the girls position, the party has just s…
/r/seduction06/09/12 12:12 PM
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Not to sound nasty but she sounds like such an empty vessel. Maybe it's just my taste but she seems as sharp as a brush.
/r/seduction06/09/12 09:53 AM
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Girls are far less prejudiced when they aren't drunk in a club full of guys. If they are cutting you off that quick then you aren't strong enough with your openers. You could also try a bit of pea cocking.
/r/seduction04/09/12 09:56 PM
1

A really effective way of complimenting I found from watching Noel fielding goes like this... See a girl with a black and white polka dot dress...'hey I like you dress, you look like a sexy dice'. Compliment, relate to something ridiculous but add in a light sexual note.
/r/seduction04/09/12 09:50 PM
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All I can say is, very good idea! Any self thought up system is great. It's all about what works for you and these little ideas make the 'scary' eye contact thing quite a fun activity.
/r/seduction29/08/12 05:56 PM
1

She could have a boyfriend. She might also be nervous because you see each other in class every day. Invite her to a party, tell her to bring some friends.
/r/seduction29/08/12 03:47 PM
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This is why I hate text game, you walk a very narrow line. When she spoke about the band you should have simply said you liked them too or asked what else she was going to do there. When she says you have a sex addiction you should have ignored that IMO. Infact you could have left it after that for a bit. The homo/aids things, I think, isn't as bad as people make out. It just isn't something that can EVER work through text. You have to use the right type of humour with the right personality, IN …
/r/seduction29/08/12 03:28 PM
1

This is really simple. Stop trying to read her Mind!!! You have no clue how anyone will respond to anything. That's the fun part don't you see? Most of the time I'm in public and I see a girl, if I notice something about her or can say something that's clearly in the moment I'll just say it. But my mindset is almost like I'm trolling a bit I'm thinking 'hah, wonder how she'll respond to this'. It's why they call it the game, because it's supposed to be fun. Leave the serious thoughts for when yo…
/r/seduction28/08/12 06:40 PM
0

Maybe I'm just an anti-romantic but in my opinion. Nobody is 'the one' that sort of decision takes time.
/r/seduction27/08/12 10:38 PM
1

If she said that to me i would have said 'I'm single, but if I was interested, you wouldn't be thinking of your boyfriend.' With a smile of course ;)
/r/seduction27/08/12 10:34 PM
1

I think ignoring the comment would have been the best approach. Possibly even losing interest in her conversation and talking to some guys instead for a bit.
/r/seduction27/08/12 08:27 AM
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That's pretty much how I played it out. I just tried to go a bit caveman style and even though she was laughing her ass off and enjoyed my company it just didn't work. Guess you can't win em all eh lol. Oh and she was only about a HB7 but I guess with her attitude it was more HB8.
/r/seduction27/08/12 08:21 AM
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Agree totally. Whenever I'm talking about what I love I always try to channel the enthusiasm quentin Tarantino puts into his interviews. Honestly watch him, he really loses himself talking about something he loves.
/r/seduction25/08/12 05:00 PM
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I was in this situation where a girl said she wasn't going to have sex with me.I said 'ok I'll just go home then. It's been a good night cya'. 2minutes later she called to insist I came over ;)
/r/seduction24/08/12 10:40 PM
1

Going to Malaga. My main course of action was to simply talk to as many girls as possible. Invite them to join in any fun we are having. Make it appear like the reason the group keeps getting bigger is because of me and my mate. Drinking challenges and Basically throwing down assumptions that they need to break through for our approval. Luckily my mates a good wing man. He hasn't a clue about the game but the fucker looks like a top gun era tom cruise.
/r/seduction18/08/12 07:54 PM
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Go on a date with someone else, cut contact for a week or two and see how she reacts to that news.
/r/seduction18/08/12 12:40 PM
1

No thoughts at all? Anyone?
/r/seduction18/08/12 12:37 PM
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I mean absolutely no offence to you but your perspective is YOURS. The type of girl that your talking about is someone with confidence issues out with her looks. I'll explain. PUA is for guys who lack the confidence to speak to girls, especially attractive, confident, high value women. Now it is true not every girl is like this but these factors increase in scale to how good looking the girl is. It's the exact same for men. The methods you have issues with are strictly for these HB9+ women. It m…
/r/seduction18/08/12 10:19 AM
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Exactly! There's so many ways to respond to it. The only thing better than a good line is responding with an even better line.
/r/seduction17/08/12 07:23 PM
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I only really sit up when I find a strong willed girl. Good looking, can give as good as she gets without trying too hard and confident in herself.
/r/seduction17/08/12 02:47 PM
3

Oh man you missed a good retort to that. I would've said something like 'oh yes because your a SPECIAL little girl aren't you.' Or something about assuming everyone thinks she's special. Implying that you don't, yet. Or even better, tell her 8 is the normal price and the HB4 and 5 are the special ones. So many options!
/r/seduction17/08/12 02:44 PM
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I don't have a fear per se, but my home life is currently up in the air. I don't commit fully to any girl I'm interested in because of it.
/r/seduction17/08/12 02:35 PM
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I think his opener was pretty bang on. No over thought routine, used things in front of him for humour, it would have came across very spontaneous and I think your just unlucky. Either she had a boyfriend or you werent strong enough in the way you said it. But I'd say she was just a taken lady. Nice one!
/r/seduction17/08/12 02:32 PM
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If you see her every week your only showing her one thing and that is, your always available. If your available, she's safe, she has no fear of losing her chance with you. If you make it very clear that you are at least going on dates with other girls it might just be the push she needs. Make sure there is occasions when she calls you to do something and you are busy. The less time you have for her the more she will value that time with you.
/r/seduction16/08/12 05:25 PM
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While I would never advocate splitting up a couple. It sounds like they are close to it anyway and you had a natural decent date with her. I'd half jokingly say, "when you break up with him, im taking you out....if im still available."
/r/seduction16/08/12 08:28 AM
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Depends on the girl and her attitude you should gauge how to handle situations. -If it's a girl your doing some serious flirting with then drinking her drink could work but you would have to follow it up with something like 'hey! I'm one less drink away from having sex with you ;)' - hell you could even make some joke about it tasting like chloroform. -if it's someone you have just met or a girl with low confidence. When she says 'hold this' I'd either hold her hand, hold her bag, or give her a …
/r/seduction16/08/12 08:06 AM
2

First things first, you know you acted a bit of a douche. It's not so much the homophobia, it's more the complete negativeness of it all. When she asked you to go to the shitty pageant you should have said its not your sort of thing but you would take her out the next day. Anything you don't want to be at will always bring out the negative vibes. It sounds like you could do with reframing your jokes or humour. Off the top of my head one thing I'd have said was something like "at my school we don…
/r/seduction16/08/12 07:51 AM
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Dude first off, stop saying she rejected you! That's not necessarily true and it's such a negative word. You didn't just go up to some girl alone, you opened a girl with a guy. Of course your nervous as hell and she knew it but by the sounds of it she appreciated how ballsy as situation like that was for you. If I were you I'd make that Starbucks your regular for a few weeks. If your in there reading a book and she comes in you now have the freedom to give her a knowing smile and a wee wave over…
/r/seduction15/08/12 06:05 PM
4

Why not just ask her after work? Just say your going for drink/food/coffee and she should come keep ya company. Or something like that.
/r/seduction15/08/12 05:58 PM
0

Next time your at a bar or club, walk up to the first girl you see smiling hold both your hands out for her to take and say 'hi'.
/r/seduction14/08/12 06:07 PM
2

I'm really sorry about how I wrote this. I was very drunk and high and my friend recently called me to tell me he was about to have a threesome with two girls and I had to tell you about him. I hope to give more details in the future. So I'll give you a reason now. One time we were in a bar. The OWNER of the bar comes in, 30+ blonde. Hot. She comes up to him after checking him out for a bit. Asks him outside. Then fucks off with her? Left me alone in a bar in a strange part of town. He fucks her…
/r/seduction14/08/12 06:33 AM
3

Yeah definitely. I think with some refinement it can be redone. For some reason I really think this opener would work wonders on a group of girls.
/r/seduction08/08/12 08:56 PM
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I just split up with my SO so I want to try it again. The beauty of it as well is that once you done the first part you can go in so many different directions with it. Also, girls love gay guys. I used to use a line for straight girls who ask why I went to gay clubs I'd say "sometimes I just want to relax and not get harassed by tonnes of girls." If you wanted to use it in that opener ;)
/r/seduction08/08/12 08:51 PM
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"if you think that's cute, you should see how I sleep"
/r/seduction07/08/12 09:51 AM
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