SHY GIRLS?

TheMattEastwood · 2016-10-12T00:21:30+00:00

Shy girls definitely need more trust, comfort and connection to get with.

If she is a virgin it's a very big moment for her in her life. So don't be sexual all the time. Do boring things with her. Do something for her that will show she can trust you.

In nightclubs I always take out a picture of my niece & nephew on my phone to show a more caring side of me and show a bit of vulnerability.

monkeyman114 · 2016-10-12T04:13:23+00:00

Be nice, friendly and remember she wants you to take her places, show her things, introduce her to new stuff. Be her tour guide to a new life. Don't game a shy girl she can easily get hurt in even a minor misunderstanding.

recyclablebanthas · 2016-10-12T08:26:21+00:00

How do you guys handle shy girls? I'm gaming a shy girl in my social circle, she wouldn't even make eye contact with me...She's nervous like I was around girls in 2012 lmao.

So..... She's immature? Are you sure you find that attractive?

She gives me IOI's

Like what?

but she's sort of intimidated and seems like she might even be a virgin.

Again, I'd ask..... What's the appeal in this girl for you?

And are you looking for something casual or serious here?

What would be your game plan?

Honestly, to each their own, but my game plan would be "next."

If the girl doesn't hit the ball back very well, that doesn't lead to a very fun experience in or out of the bedroom.

Usually a girl like this, when confronted by someone with more experience or confidence, will seek to undermine that confidence in subtle ways. To make things feel more equal. Creating codependencies that the guy doesn't see coming until he's already in too deep. Note though, that no sacrifice will actually ever be enough and some part of her would always be off balance with you.

And in the bedroom, such a girl is more likely to be so self-conscious that, to be honest, it's a bit of a boner killer because they are so unsure of themselves or insecure about your greater experience.

So whether we're talking about a casually good time in the bedroom or a serious relationship, a girl like this probably falls short unless the shy thing is just a front and she is actually confident.

jimmyelgent · 2016-10-12T08:43:06+00:00

I'm gaming a shy girl in my social circle

What have you done so far in terms of 'gaming her'? How long have you been friends?

Title	SHY GIRLS?
Author	RoyTagliaferro
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	October 11, 2016 11:09 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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