Background:

18, First year at uni, was a virgin before this girl. I don't approach very much at all even though I know I can, I'm in a relatively small city compared to many others but that's no excuse really.

I met a girl who is worth more than just a hookup to me, a cool girl that I can talk to, etc. Only problem is she doesn't want me to see other girls because she'd get jealous and compare herself constantly (Her words). My first reaction was, ok I'll just move on because we're not on the same page. I'm having second thoughts now though...

I know there'll be other quality girls out there, but it's a little hard to give her up considering I don't have any other girls right now and this was my first lay. On the other hand I know that staying with her is me being lazy and I'll improve more if I push myself to approach and get results that way. Thoughts and/or advice seddit?