Had a date this weekend with a girl I've been seeing for a while and escalating with. Small success I've had since following seddit, today she straight up told me she's attracted to me involving a number of reasons. She told me she likes that I'm mysterious (not vomiting up feelings and emotions like most guys she's been with), I don't blow up her phone (she reaches out to me 80% of the time) and I have a good sense of humor and make jokes (playful teasing and negging). She also said she likes that I take control and go for what I want (kino, kissing and escalating) Just wanted to share this with the community as it's been super helpful for me and really turned around my dating experiences.

TL/DR: This shit works