So frustrated/confused

Turlast · 2015-09-09T07:17:17+00:00

First off, stop worrying about if your friends have game or not. Plenty of dudes are lacking game and still get pussy. Another thing you need to realize is that this isn't supposed to be a competition. It sucks knowing your friends are getting laid while you're not, but your situation won't get any better by focusing on that. Don't be that jealous guy who complains.

You got rejected? Good. It means you're actually making an effort. Honestly, unless you're doing some really cringe worthy stuff (which I doubt based on your post), it's only a matter of time before one of the girls drop their panties for you.

Just keep at it and don't think about the pussy your friends or roommate is getting. This is a journey, not a race.

feetinthemud · 2015-09-09T06:37:35+00:00

Don't be hard on yourself. If a girl doesn't kiss you, get out of her face.

unorthodoxintrovert · 2015-09-10T00:14:36+00:00

Awesome to hear you're starting off on the right foot! I've been dong this for 4 years, 2 years of which, i spent with all the "pickup" gimmicks. Ultimately what all of us (both men and women) want is connection and to be seduced in the right way. I probably started off much worse than you. When i was your age, I could hardly talk to people in general. Spent days in high school not even saying a word. Now I've talked to more than 3,000 women and dated some, many of my friends would say are out of my league. Feel free to reach out to me brother. Would love to share more.

Aaron Yang - Vimbasi

http://vimbasiwarrior.com/

Rx_Love · 2015-09-10T15:20:47+00:00

Stop comparing yourself to others. It's stay the course, you described some pretty typical scenarios that we all go through an learn from. Builds character. Be careful to not be bitter

Krisztiaan · 2015-09-10T07:30:40+00:00

Being a senior in college and organizing freshmen camps for years I can say you overthink too much. This will be a cornerpoint for your game, as now you really need to let go of the outcome, and you will be able to test the limits of escalation. Just be bolder, really put your desire out there, and see the reactions. Besides, you should appreciate your friends' success, envy won't help you. But they will.

Not really related, but I just feel like you shouldn't fuk up like I did: Start living by meaningful moral code, and really hold your values. Pussy and looks are waay overrated.

One last thing: pussy may give you a good night, but friends will set you up for a great Life.

Title	So frustrated/confused
Author	blckjamal
Upvotes	4
Comments	5
Date	September 9, 2015 6:26 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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