So it happened again

GoldenWarrior · 2012-05-26T03:53:21+00:00

Stop getting too excited for one specific night. Just plan to go out and have a fun time, meet new people, create new friends, and enjoy new experiences. Or as mentioned, try day game. Probably a lot more financially viable, and quicker to attempt.

budguy68 · 2012-05-26T04:49:07+00:00

I have a hard time goign out my byself. So I usually go with friends. Perferably with people who tend to be more social and more on the positive side.

games is a good idea. here's a game. Go to a social place like the mall and give your friend 100 dollars and say. "The only way I can get this money back is if i approach chicks. You give me 20 bucks per approach." Also Warm up with employees who help customers or whatever. Strike up a conversation with an old couple or whatever or a security guard.

You also have to realize that you're going to get excited no matter what. you're just programed that way.

2012-05-26T04:01:54+00:00

There's many more opportunities to be had so one bad night isn't a big deal. It sounds like you built it up too much in your mind and had too many expectations of yourself. Keep it simple, start with a hello and a smile.

2012-05-26T07:13:48+00:00

It takes time. Don't beat yourself up for trying. At the very least, you did better than 90% of Seddit, because we all know that 90% of Seddit are lurkers who will never muster up the courage to talk to a girl.

Success will happen as long as you put in genuine, long-term effort. Don't worry about it. If anything, derive confidence from the fact that you are trying to improve yourself. Many people don't even have a single goal, and at least your goal is a noble one (self-improvement).

And of course, practice practice practice. But I suppose that's a given, if you put in honest, long-term effort.

4FF41R · 2012-05-26T03:41:39+00:00

Play a different game: stop reading stuff, and start practicing. Day game is a great opportunity. A game you can play with yourself is something like "eating lunch only after 10 # close"

Title	So it happened again
Author	dontmatter09
Upvotes	6
Comments	11
Date	May 26, 2012 3:31 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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