Social networks

petriomelony · 2018-06-17T17:07:45+00:00

solution: don't go out with that group if it's causing you to stick with inaction. inertia is difficult to overcome, and if none of your current friends are social with girls and you want to be, you need to find yourself some new friends.

go out alone, go to events you enjoy, and just talk to people.

also don't confuse social media with social circle game, those are different things. you can have a normal social media profile (ie: not have thousands of friends or followers or likes or shit) and be amazing at social circle game.

hunterpua · 2018-06-17T17:56:36+00:00

Oh so you're talking about social media.

Well, you have to address your social media to an extent. Every girl you will come across in real life will sure as hell look you up in social media and that will affect how you're perceived. Better to take the world as it is rather than as you wish it to be because if you force the issue and try to get good results with girls while having shitty social media then you can pull it off...with amazing game. But in the meantime, while you don't have amazing game, you will fail over and over and over and over. Saying no to social media these days is basically equivalent to trying to get good with girls without improving the way you dress and groom yourself, you're just making it harder for yourself.

Here's an important point you made though:

when I go out basically nobody does cold approach anymore, they all already know girls

Get female friends. Have them introduce you to their friends. Have their friends introduce you to their friends. When you meet new girls, bring them over and introduce them to your female friends to grow the network. While you hang out with the girls, take photos to put up to your social media. Screw the guys, don't introduce the guys to your female friends, hang out with your male friends separately when you're not with your female friends. Your chances of getting laid are higher the more girls you hang out with and the less guys are there with you.

A lot of guys will not admit this and a lot just don't know this but in order to get the hottest of the hot, the most beautiful girls ever, you have to meet them via your social circle because just by logistics alone, it will be incredibly hard to get to a girl that is really fucking beautiful because you will rarely see her just out and about or in a part of a club that isn't the VIP section and if you're lucky enough to come across a girl like that, there is almost no point trying to game her with cold approach because there will be so many guys ready to cockblock you plus she's heard every trick in the book and been hit on by rich people, famous people, ridiculously high value people, and even other PUAs, probably coaches since they'd be the only ones with the balls or the skill to get a girl like her so its not even worth the effort.

Better to get introduced to a 10 and be part of her social circle and be allowed into the VIP sections with her than be one of 20 guys desperately trying to make it into the VIP section just for the chance to talk to her. When you're part of same social scene as her she will basically see you as someone with equal or higher value than her, she'll also trust you more, that in combination with having tons of female friends will give you a way better shot with a girl like that.

Pallzzo · 2018-06-18T09:53:48+00:00

No old highschool friends? Or as a friend of mine does, he knows he gets friend zoned a lot but uses it to his advantage. DMs few girls, one responds, eventually they go out and she does it to him so no go right? Wrong, he uses the girl as a pimp for more girls. Try to find friends and don’t see the a girl as a friend as a bad thing. Usually If it’s going to be that way, go for girls that are usually in a female group, you don’t want 1 girl and 10 new guy friends haha

Title	Social networks
Author	universalvoid87
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	June 17, 2018 10:10 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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