Solo Clubbing?

2011-09-28T16:27:51+00:00

I don't do it often but I've actually had WAY better luck alone...but it is a little less fun (aside from the getting laid part) because you have no buddies to talk to.

If you go out enough to the same places, you'll probably run into someone you at least kind of know anyway, if you need a break from approaching girls and want to chat for 5 min or whatever.

Advice? It isn't really any different from being with people. Except you get to choose exactly where to go, where in the bar/club to be, and when to leave. Which is awesome. If you've hit on 5 chicks at a place and want to go elsewhere, no need to round everyone up. You just leave.

If anyone asks where your friends are, just say "they ditched me". Happens all the time in crowded places where people lose each other unintentionally.

Go out a little later...you're slightly conspicuous alone at 10:30pm, but not at 11:30.

And hit on everything in sight man! Being alone actually improves your game because you have to talk to a chick, or you have no one to talk to.

I agree about going out with people who have bf/gf's. It tends to suck. They have no agenda, like single guys do. If the place is a sausagefest, they're like "why leave?" and take friggin forever to leave. That wastes your time.

Stormhammer · 2011-09-28T16:27:33+00:00

Male or Female?

If male - well, get there just before teh crown hits, have a drink. Observe. Have a second drink. Go out, start feeling the beat and comfortable in dancing, loosen up - find a lovely lass that catches your eye, and ask her if she would like to dance. Go from there.

adriens · 2011-09-29T07:33:58+00:00

At least it forces you to open sets for conversation.

Title	Solo Clubbing?
Author	whatwhywhy
Upvotes	2
Comments	11
Date	September 28, 2011 4:15 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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