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[–]FittersGuy 2 points3 points4 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't smother her, give her space. Depending on how much you've tried contacting her already, give her 4-7 (or more if you REALLY tried hard to contact her) days of no contact.
Her phone could just be broken afterall.
[–]Dontwearthatsock 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
3 weeks IS the allotted time for consistency in a females behavior...
[–]octopus_bill 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
what do you mean? can you explain? :P
[–]Dontwearthatsock 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It was just a joke. I was saying maybe she on her period and moody.
[–]octopus_bill 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yeah,i also thought that....:P i hope that it's this :D
[–]WiteOut 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Here's what you need to do. Disappear for a while, stop hitting her up and show her that you can be an independent man that has other priorities. I know this is really difficult to do because you may think that you have done everything right and that she should be into you, and she might be, but she wants to know that you can do your own thing.
I say you need to disappear for a while, don't call or text or facebook message. Don't ever update your facebook status, simply disappear. If she is really into you she will miss your presence and come find you. If she doesn't than that is a sign to move on. Good luck!
[–]jimii 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Stop trying to get in touch with her.
Pursue other girls.
[–]puaCurveBall[M] 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl
This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT)
Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many sidebar guides.
Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
is this just a trick that she is playing???
Is it working?
[–]octopus_bill 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
probably :P any suggestions?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You know what to do.
what?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You ever heard of game theory? Google 'prisoners dilemma'... i'll wait...
OK so notice how the game plays out. If both players cooperate, they both WIN! If one player tries to cooperate and the other refuses to, there is a slight benefit to one and a large negative for the other (sounds familiar???)...
And of course if both players choose not to play the game, they both lose...
BUT...
You get to play multiple times! That's the best part of social interactions, you get multiple chances. So if you want to play the game... you both have to agree to play... if one of you breaks the rules... then you have to enforce the rules or you end up playing a game you don't want to play!
But then you go back to playing the game you want to play... the one where you WIN!
Have fun!
yeah,i think i get it :P you are right...i will just try to clear things up for now and we will see :) thx for the advice
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