This comic has some delightful perspective. A gentlemen is confident and doesn't need to make his girl jealous and is awesome enough to make girls jealous of his girl

I think being that confident is a good thing. Some games are worth playing and other games are just bullshit.

Since the above wasn't enough I guess I will add more...

This is what I take away from it.

  • Male is confident in himself
  • Male doesn't have to make his partner jealous on purpose
  • Male lives awesome life and in turn other women wish they were the girl he is with.

The point I was trying to make is that if you are trying to make your mate jealous with other girls on purpose then that isn't very confident. Just being awesome is confident. Sure your mate may be jealous of the attention other girls are showing but it wouldn't be on purpose.

It isn't about supplicating or any other thing you may think of when it comes to being a gentlemen.

We have Alpha, douche, and beta. Douche don't care about anyone but themselves and therefore look confident. If you are truely confident you are confident in your actions but try to calibrate to those around you in order not to be a complete prick. Ever notice how an older confident gentleman can command those around him yet be very kind while doing it? It is similar to the statement by a president, "speak softly and carry a big stick". That means that you are confident yet graceful in your actions.

When I am looking around at women at the club I am looking for the ones that aren't looking around constantly to see who is watching, not the ones who are in their head, not the frowning ones, etc.

I am looking for the girl that moves with confidence and happiness at the same time. A girl who is confident in being who she is without having to resort to being bitchy.