So these days I'm starting to realize it's not always about what you do, it's more about WHO it is with.

If a girl is into you or likes you, she will usually leave you no room for doubt. If they're brave enough, they'll also come to you.

If you just play it smoothly, don't try too hard and I know it sounds cliché but just act natural, everything that follows will also come naturally if there is attraction there.

I had a date set up with a girl for this morning, She asked me out after we'd been talking for a short while. I was an idiot and went and got shitfaced the night before, not coming home until 5am, meaning I missed the date.

Though she was initially angry with me and most girls would never talk to you again in that situation, she took my apology, I turned it into something funny and she gave me another chance so I told her I'll take her out to dinner.

Within 5 minutes of meeting I knew we were game on. She looked straight into my eyes, blushed and had no worries about her personal space. No uncomfortable vibes.

I've realized if a girl likes you, they all do this thing when they walk with you where they "accidentally" bump into you, brush arms with you or generally don't worry about getting too close to you. If they don't like you, they'll usually be making sure to keep their distance so this doesn't happen.

I'm sure it's maybe even on a subconscious level though.

She was doing this the whole way to the restaurant, looking at me with a smile as we walked. It was a nice opportunity to gently break the touch barrier and break the ice before arriving at the venue.

We had a nice evening of conversation and some really nice moments of silence too, she looked at my eyes, I looked at hers and we just smiled at each other, I could literally see her melting in her seat. Sometimes words aren't important.

I took the opportunity to finish it before things got too dragged out and took her back to the station for her train.

She expressed interest in seeing me again and asked if there's anywhere we can go together, to which I made a couple of suggestions.

After she went through the gates not even 10 minutes later I got a couple of messages from her thanking me for a great time and etc.

The whole thing was effortless and enjoyable.

TL;DR I believe in natural compatibility and if a girl really likes you, she'll make it easy for you.

You know usually very fast if you're compatible with someone and sometimes you just click with mutual attraction very automatically.

If you feel you're making too much effort, maybe you are. If you have to try to force them to like you, maybe you're picking the wrong people.