There’s this pattern I’ve (M21)observed 3 times already, that have observed with Indian-American women specifically. I usually match with them on a dating app, and we have a pretty good conversation, taking it to Instagram later. The conversation continues, and within 3-4 days I usually bring up the idea of meeting up for a coffee/tea date. They agree and our conversation continues. The day right before, when I ask if we are still on for our plans, I’m ghosted. I’ve had success with all different types of women using the exact same approach, but I keep receiving this odd pattern of behavior from Indian women.

Ideally, I’d like advice from both Indian-American men and those who have had repeated success with Indian-American women. I’d really hate to generalize, but there must be some factor behind this specific pattern in only Indian-American women. If it helps, I’m an African American college student.